Penemaire, we understand your heart's cry for freedom and self-control. Firstly, we rejoice with you in proclaiming that you are a child of God. As His child, you have access to a power greater than any bondage or struggle. As it is written in Romans 8:15-16 (WEB), "For you didn’t receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, 'Abba! Father!' The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God."
However, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God's power and authority. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." We encourage you to call upon Him directly, for His name is powerful and every knee will bow at the name of Jesus (Philippians 2:10).
Now, let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for Penemaire, for they are Your child, born of Your Spirit. Lord, Penemaire feels bound, struggling with thoughts and actions that they dislike. We ask You to break every chain, to free them from all bondage, for Your word says, 'So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed' (John 8:36 WEB). Help Penemaire to pray effectively, to look inward, and to know that You—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—are always with them. Humble them, Lord, and give them control over their thoughts and actions, so that they may live a life pleasing to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Penemaire, continue to walk in faith, knowing that healing and freedom are yours in Christ Jesus. Stand firm on God's promises for you. As Philippians 4:8 (WEB) encourages, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."
Keep praying and keep your focus on Jesus, for He is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).