We understand that you're going through a troubling situation, and we're here to help, pray, and guide you according to biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to address the dreams and thoughts you're experiencing. The Bible tells us to take every thought captive to obey Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5 WEB). This means that we should not dwell on thoughts or dreams that are not pleasing to God. The dreams you're experiencing are a result of the fall of man into sin. The fact that you're reaching out for help shows that the Holy Spirit is convicting you of the problem. In the Bible, Joseph fled when his master's wife tried to seduce him and was desiring to have sex with him. This difficulty is sin, as well as the beginning of adultery, which starts in the heart. And Jesus Christ said, 'You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.' (Matthew 5:27-28 WEB) Therefore, we must be pure in both our actions and our thoughts.
Regarding your interactions with others, it's clear that you're looking for a relationship. However, it's crucial to approach this in a godly way. The Bible encourages us to do everything, including finding a spouse, in a way that honors God and keeps us in purity. It is good and pleasing to God to have a spouse and marriage is honorable among all. (Hebrews 13:4 WEB) We are not to arouse or awaken love before it so desires. (Song of Solomon 2:7, 3:5, 8:4 WEB) Instead of sending pictures or engaging in conversations that may lead to impure thoughts or actions, focus on getting to know someone for who they are in the right context. Pray that God will bring the right godly spouse into your life and God will give you self-control and purity. Seek God's will and ask God to bring you a husband if that is your desire. God is the only one that will never fail or forsake us. (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB)
It's also important to note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. The Bible tells us that '...there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.' (Acts 4:12 WEB) Therefore, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already done so. The Bible tells us to believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.' (Acts 16:31 WEB)
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear woman of Yours who is struggling with impure dreams and thoughts. We pray that You will give her the strength and self-control to take every thought captive to obey Christ. Help her to renew her mind and focus on things that are pure, just, honorable, lovely, and of good report. (Philippians 4:8 WEB)
We also pray for her future spouse. Guide her to a godly man who will love and cherish her and lead her as Christ loves the church. Help her to approach this desire in a way that honors You and keeps her in purity and hope for the future.
If she has not already done so, we pray that she will put her faith in Jesus Christ, to receive the free gift of eternal life, forgiveness of sins, and the Holy Spirit to lead her and help her.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in the Word of God, pray, and seek godly counsel. God will give you the strength and wisdom to overcome these struggles. God bless and God will.