We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you and your husband have been facing, and it's commendable that you have been seeking God during this time. Dreams can often reflect our desires, fears, and aspirations. Your dream of your husband calling you and talking on the phone may indicate a longing for restored communication and connection.
Firstly, God has this to say about marriage and conflict in James 4:1-3:
What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not your passions that are at war in your members? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures.
Marriage is a sacred bond, and God desires for husbands and wives to live in harmony. In Ephesians 5:25-28, the Bible says:
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
The Bible encourages you, as a wife, to respect your husband. Ephesians 5:33:
Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
If there has been any hurt, betrayal, or communication issues, it's crucial to address them openly and honestly. Seek God's guidance and wisdom in your conversations. Pray for a spirit of forgiveness, understanding, and love. Colossians 3:13-14:
Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this marriage to You. We pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed spirit of love and understanding between this husband and wife. Guide their conversations, Lord, and help them to address their issues with honesty, forgiveness, and respect. Help them to seek You first, trusting in Your wisdom and guidance.
Lord, we also pray for their dreams and desires. You can do anything and know all things. We pray for a godly marriage.
The Bible says, "the prayer of faith will save him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” James 5:15-16. So, we pray to you in Jesus' name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to seek God, trust in His timing, and remain faithful in prayer. He hears your prayers and desires the best for your marriage.