Yes, Prayer really works! Your time expectations and God time frame are not always the same. God took your Aunt Judy home because it was her time to go home to be with Our Lord. I can tell you personally from my experiences that God does listen and does open doors for you. It may not be want we want but a new direction or solution to our problems. God knows what we need, Does answer, God wants us to call upon him. Develop a relationship & a friendship that will last an eternity. How you ask, prayer, lesson learned in church, bible classes or studies, talking with others that have faith, and prayer. Take time by yourself, and Go talk to Jesus, Place everything into his hands. Tell him, Lord, I can not do this by myself but You can. I placing all my problems, and my life back into your hands and ask you to lead me. JUST DO IT and talk with God......He is listening.
I will be praying for you. We have all come down this road. It does get better. You will have a very happy life. Prayer and TRUST in JESUS will get you through.