DO YOU LIKE TO TEACH AND COUNSEL? HEAR THIS FIRST!

Many of you are capable of teaching and knowing many things of God. But do you use compassion and love when you teach people? Do you even listen to the Holy spirit DO YOU EVEN SHOULD TEACH AND PREACH TO THEM or should you LISTEN TO THEM and their needs and pray humbly and lovingly for them. I have enough of people who are teaching people who are sick and putting pressure on them, you should do this or that...dont do that. You are ACTING LIKE YOU ARE GOD. Pray for them. Say to them things only if you get something from the Holy spirit. When people are sick, thel least they need is that you CONDEMN them that they have not done this or that. STOP WITH RULES AND REGULATIONS, you are WALKING IN THE FLESH, and you are RELIGIOUS, YOU ARE ACTING LIKE PHARISEES. Stop with it!! Stop being self righteous. You never know if you will be sick if you had their problems and evil spirits, and environements, and families and addictions etc etc. Why are you so self righteous, be carefull that the same condtion that you have blamed others of, that it will not fall upon you, this states the Bible. Be humble, be gentle meek and kind to people. Dont put pressure on people who are sick. Even the people in the world know that people who are sick are more likeley to heal if they have a positive loving people around them who will take care of them. Alone and harrassed people stay sick or recover slowly. Dont put pressure on people. I am begging you not only because of me, but also because of many people who are sick and are on this site. Who are you to judge them? You are not GOD JEHOWA!! When somebody says to you, please stop, dont do this or dont say those things to me, why do you not stop?? PRIDE!! COLDNESS, CRUELTY HARSHNESS, INSENSITIVITY, you lack compassion!! I would dare to say: shame on you!! Why do you not ask God: Lord, what does this person that suffers needs that i can give to her? How can i love her? How can i help her? How can i help heal her wounds? Should i say something to her and what? HOW CAN YOU GOD LOVE THIS PERSON THROUGH ME? Help me not to cross her boundaries witch which i will upset her, hurt her or even destroy what you God has build in her? How can i humbly serve this person? Lord, Jesus help me!
You will wait until God humbles you with a bad condition or will you humble yourself and stop putting pressure on people and acting like you are God given counselor??