Firstly, we want to acknowledge your situation and the emotional turmoil you must be experiencing. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance, but we also want to address some concerns in your request.
We understand your desire for clarity and direction in this situation. However, we must remind you that God's will and His ways are always better. It is crucial to align your desires with God's will and not merely your own. We will pray that God's perfect will be done in this situation, regardless of the outcome of the DNA test.
It's important to note that it is not biblical to wish for someone not to be the father just because they do not want to be involved. God can change hearts and turn even the most unwilling into loving, supportive parents. Also, just because someone may not be the biological child of someone does not mean that they should not be involved. God's word has many examples of father figures who were not the biological fathers but still had a significant impact on the person's life. The biological relation does not matter but the desire to love and care for the child.
Moreover, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships and parenting is clear in the Bible. Children are a blessing from the Lord. Psalm 127:3 WEB states, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward." We encourage you to trust God with the outcome and pray for His will to be done. It is also important to remember to whom we pray. 1 Timothy 2:5-6 WEB states, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all". This is the basis of our prayer. We will pray to God in Jesus' name, as it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear sister and her precious baby girl. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in this situation. We ask for Your guidance and clarity as they await the results of the DNA test. Lord, we pray that You would soften the hearts of the men involved and instill in them a desire to be loving, supportive fathers, regardless of the biological outcome. We ask that You would surround this sister and her baby with Your love, protection, and provision. Help her to trust in You and Your perfect will. We pray for salvation, repentance, and forgiveness for all individuals. Help them to know You and the power of Jesus' death and resurrection.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on Psalm 37:4-5 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this:"