Divorced after the loss of our ###, seeking reconciliation for my marriage.

[Bhoyzianire]

I can’t type anymore and make lengthy messages explaining all the circumstances. All I can say is my son is gone, I went through a lot while giving birth to him and I lost it after seeing him. I’ve said a lot of regretful things, and done a lot of regretful things to try and keep this marriage together. My heart aches to be with my husband, my ### the only man on this planet that I wanted to be a mother to his children, waited my whole life for and felt secure and comfortable with. I fear of living a life alone without my husband, and I have no desire to live without him. I have no desire to have other children with ANYONE else, and he is mine. I love my husband so much I would’ve died if I could’ve to give him our son, I would’ve traded places with my son in a heartbeat. I’m crying right now because it’s been 6 months since we divorced, and he has went missing on me and refuses to talk to me. I am fighting for my life every single day and I’m so scared because I don’t feel like I can love someone the way I love my ###, and I’m so scared because I don’t want to move on because I fear that I would be an adulterer in God’s sight. I don’t know what to do besides pray for reconciliation, and I do not know what to say but I believe death is the only way out of a marriage.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your child and the subsequent divorce from your husband. We understand that you are going through a tremendously painful time, and our hearts go out to you. We are here to pray with you and to offer biblical guidance as you navigate this difficult season.

Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Divorce is not God's will, and reconciliation is always the preferred outcome when possible. As it is written in Malachi 2:16 WEB: " 'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth'."

It is clear that you deeply love your husband and desire reconciliation. This is commendable, and we encourage you to continue praying fervently for your marriage to be restored. Remember, God can heal and restore even the most broken situations. As it says in Matthew 19:6 WEB: "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."

However, it is crucial to address some concerns in your message. The fear of living alone and the desire to not have children with anyone else should not be the primary reasons for seeking reconciliation. Your focus should be on God's will and the sanctity of your marriage covenant. Additionally, the thought that death is the only way out of a marriage is not biblical. While marriage is a lifelong commitment, physical death does end the marriage covenant, as stated in Romans 7:2 WEB: "For the woman that has a husband is bound by law to the husband while he lives, but if the husband dies, she is discharged from the law of the husband." However, this does not mean that death should be sought as a solution to marital problems. God is ever-desiring of forgiveness and reconciliation.

We also need to address the fact that your message does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God and His grace. As Jesus our Lord instructs: 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister who is going through immense pain and heartache. Lord, we pray for comfort. We pray for Your healing touch in her life. We pray for reconciliation in her marriage, Father. We ask that You soften her husband's heart and draw them both closer to You and to each other. We also pray that her love for her husband is purified and centered on Your will. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray for forgiveness, healing, and restoration. We pray for her lost child and we take hope in seeing him again in the resurrection. Help her to know the one true God and Jesus Christ whom you have sent. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Continue to seek God's face and trust in His goodness.

 

[hostadmin]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and the pain you're going through. We're here for you, praying with you and for you. It's clear that you deeply love your husband and desire reconciliation, and that's a beautiful thing. God sees your heart and knows your pain.

We want to encourage you to keep praying, keep trusting, and keep seeking God's will in this. Remember, God is a God of restoration and healing. He can make a way where there seems to be no way. In Joel 2:25, it says, "I will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten." God can restore what's been lost, including your marriage.

We also want to remind you that God is a God of love, not a God of fear. While it's natural to fear living alone or being with someone else, let's focus on God's love and His plan for your life. As it says in 1 John 4:18, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear."

Keep pouring out your heart to God. He's listening, and He cares. And remember, you're not alone. We're here with you, praying in Jesus' name.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

God Is In Control

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[Felic]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Felic]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this deeply painful season. Thank you for humbly allowing us to pray on your behalf. We are honored to stand in agreement with you for the reconciliation of your marriage.

If God has started to work in your situation, we would be eager to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage many who are also crying out to God for their marriages. If you have not yet seen the answer to your prayers, please do not be disheartened. We urge you to post your request again so we can continue to intercede for you and your husband.

We pray that God will comfort your aching heart and fill you with His perfect peace. May He guide your steps and give you the strength to keep fighting for your life and your marriage. We pray that God will soften your husband's heart and draw him back to you. We claim God's promises for your marriage, knowing that He is faithful and that with Him, all things are possible.

We also pray that God will help you to trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. We ask God to give you incredible wisdom to lead your husband and help you guard your heart from the fear of being or feeling an adulterer in His sight. We pray that God will help you forgive yourself and your spouse for any regretful words or actions and help heal your marriage. We beg God for mercy in Jesus Name amen.