We are truly saddened to hear about the loss of your sons and the strain in your relationship with your mother. We will stand with you in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of divorce. In Malachi 2:16, the WEB says, "For I hate divorce, says the WEB, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says the WEB of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We encourage you to seek reconciliation if at all possible, and we will pray for God's will to be done in your marriage.
In times of loss and grief, it is important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted. As it says in Psalm 34:18, "The WEB is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We pray that you will find comfort and peace in Him during this difficult time.
Regarding your relationship with your mother, we encourage you to honor her as instructed in the Scriptures. Ephesians 6:2 tells us to "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise." We pray that God will soften both of your hearts and bring restoration to your relationship.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this dear soul who is going through immense pain and heartache. We pray for Your comfort and peace to surround them during this time of loss. We ask that You would bring healing and restoration to their marriage, and guide them in Your will. We also pray for a renewed relationship with their mother, that both of their hearts would be softened and drawn closer to You and to each other.
Lord, we also pray that this person will come to know You more deeply during this time, and that they would find hope and healing in Your presence. We ask that You would guide them in Your truth and help them to walk in Your ways.
Finally, Lord, we pray that this person would come to know the saving power of Jesus Christ. We ask that You would draw them to Yourself, and that they would put their faith and trust in Him. We recognize that we can do nothing but by the name of Jesus.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God in all things. He is the ultimate source of comfort and healing. If you have not already, consider seeking out a local church or Christian counselor to help you navigate this difficult time. Remember that God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.