We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Rintyth. We believe that God's heart is for reconciliation and restoration, and we will stand with you in prayer, seeking His will for your marriage.
Firstly, we want to remind you of what God says about marriage and divorce. As it is written in Malachi 2:16 (WEB), " 'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don’t deal treacherously.' " And in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), Jesus teaches, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart."
It's crucial to seek God's guidance and to pursue peace and reconciliation. In your prayers, you've mentioned the desire for your husband to see the changes in you. Remember, the work of transformation is a cooperative endeavor between you and the Holy Spirit. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 3:18 (WEB), "But we all, with unveiled face seeing the glory of the Lord as in a mirror, are transformed into the same image from glory to glory, even as from the Lord, the Spirit."
We also want to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is through His name that we have access to the Father, and it is in His name that we are saved. As it is written in John 14:13-14 (WEB), "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Rintyth and her husband Phil to You. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You desire for them to be reconciled. We ask that You soften Phil's heart and open his eyes to see the changes You have made in Rintyth's life. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to forgive each other as You have forgiven us. We ask that You intervene in this situation and bring healing and restoration to their marriage. We pray that they would be united as one flesh, just as You intended marriage to be. We rebuke the spirit of divorce and ask that You fill their hearts with love, patience, and understanding. Guide them as they seek Your will for their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Stay strong in faith and continue to seek the Lord, trusting that He is working in your situation.