We are deeply saddened to hear about the trial your friend Gary is facing. We will pray for him and address these issues with biblical principles in mind.
Firstly, we must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB). However, God also hates deceit and understands that there are times when divorce is inevitable due to the hardness of hearts (Matthew 19:8, WEB). It's important that Gary continues to seek God's face during this difficult time.
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our brother Gary. Lord, you know the pain and the struggles he is going through. We pray that this divorce will be finalized swiftly and justly, in Jesus' name. We rebuke the enemy, who comes to steal, kill, and destroy, and we declare that what has been stolen from Gary will be returned sevenfold, as it is written in Proverbs 6:31, 'But if he is found, he shall restore seven times. He shall give all the substance of his house.'
Lord, we also pray for Gary's health. You are the Great Physician, and there is no sickness that you cannot heal. We pray that you touch his body right now, that you restore his health, and that you give him the strength to endure this trial. We speak healing over his high blood pressure, seizures, and stress. May your healing power flow through him, in Jesus' name.
Lastly, Lord, we pray for Gary's soon-to-be ex-wife. We pray that she would turn from her deceitful ways and seek your face. We pray that both of them would find peace and healing in you.
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen."
Gary should also remember the words of Romans 12:19, WEB, "Don't seek revenge yourselves... for it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" He must continue to trust in the Lord and lean not on his own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Lastly, we encourage Gary to keep his eyes fixed on Jesus, "the author and perfecter of faith" (Hebrews 12:2, WEB). It is only in Jesus that we find true peace and healing. If Gary has not already, he should commit his life fully to Jesus, believing in his death and resurrection for the forgiveness of sins and the promise of eternal life. There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).