We understand your concern and heartache, ###. It's important to remember that God desires unity and peace among families. Confusion and disunity are not from God, as He is not the author of confusion. We are reminded of this in 1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB: "for God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. As in all the assemblies of the saints,"
First, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and their family. Lord, You know the strain and confusion that has entered their family regarding the birthday celebration. We ask, Lord, that You touch the hearts, minds, and attitudes of each of their children. Help them to see beyond their own desires and come together in unity to honor their parent. Lord, remind them of the importance of family harmony and the blessing of being together. In Jesus' name, we pray for a resolution that will bring peace and joy to this special day. Help ### to trust in You and to rest in Your sovereign will.
Now, let's address the situation with biblical principles. In Romans 12:18 WEB, we are encouraged, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." It's crucial for each family member to seek peace and unity, even if it means setting aside personal preferences.
It's also important to remember the commandment to honor our parents. Ephesians 6:2 WEB says, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise. This is a reminder for the children to consider what would truly honor their parent on this special day.
Regarding the youngest one not wanting to come, we should pray for a change of heart. However, it's also important for the family to understand that they can't force someone to join them. Each person has their free will, and it's better to have a united and peaceful celebration with those who are willing to attend than to create more strife by trying to coerce the unwilling participant.
Let's also remind you, ###, that God is in control. Even if things don't go as planned, trust that God can turn situations around for good. As it says in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Lastly, remember that this day is a gift from God. Whether the celebration is at home or elsewhere, the most important thing is the time spent together with family. Rejoice in the love and presence of your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, knowing that this is an honor and a blessing from God.
Keep praying and trusting in God's will, knowing that His ways are higher than ours. Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB reminds us, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."
