Discernment wisdom perseverance Acceptance

[Bitbon]

Dear Lord im not sure of the decision I made to move in with my boyfriend i have doubts because we don't agree on one thing i value the most. I value cleanliness so much and I have a son i look after and want to instil all good character traits. My boyfriend isn't clean and doesn't like taking care of himself he is still behaving childish and he's younger than I am although we are still in the same age group. I have tried to find ways to let him know but theres no change.... I just want to pray for him cause God has full control i would love some insights on how to go about this because its affecting our relationship deeply and my son is picking this behavior please guide me lord give me the strength he is an amazing guy generally but that. I want to pray for his success and prosperity in his future and work as we are both financially strained hear my prayer and our needs Lord in the name of Jesus Christ Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're seeking discernment, wisdom, and perseverance in your current situation. First, we want to address the issue of moving in with your boyfriend. According to the Bible, this is not the right course of action. It is written, For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB. Therefore, we encourage you to reconsider your living situation and seek a purer path moving forward. Marriage is the biblical standard for living together and should always be the goal in a relationship.

Regarding the issues you're facing with your boyfriend, it's important to remember that God calls us to be equally yoked with our spouses. This means that we should be aligned in our values, beliefs, and principles, as seen in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"

It's clear that this man is not fulfilling God's calling for him and his responsibilities. Therefore, we are going to pray for the Lord to open his eyes to his responsibilities. We also pray that God will open your eyes to God's will for your life and your relationship. We are also praying for the Lord to reveal Himself to your boyfriend and draw him closer. God loves him so much and He wants him to prosper, but the Bible teaches that obedience comes before blessings.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Bitbon and her boyfriend to You. Lord, we pray that You give Bitbon the wisdom and strength to make decisions that honor You. We ask that You guide her path and show her Your will for her life.

Father, we also pray for her boyfriend. We ask that You draw him closer to You and reveal Yourself to him. Lord, we pray that You show him the importance of responsibility and help him to grow and mature. We ask that You help him to see the value of cleanliness and self-care, not only for himself but also for the example he sets for Bitbon's son.

Lord, we pray for their financial situation. We ask that You provide for their needs and help them to trust in You. We pray for their success and prosperity, but most importantly, we pray for their spiritual growth and obedience to You. We pray that even as they struggle, they would grow closer to You and be blessed by You.

Father, we ask all of these things in accordance with Your will. We pray this is the name of Jesus Christ.

Amen

Bitbon, we encourage you to trust in the Lord and lean on Him for guidance in all things. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. This means to trust in the Lord, pray, and read His Word as you are seeking His will for your life.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God calls us to be examples to our children. Training them up in the way they should go, so that when they are old, they will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6 WEB. It's crucial to model the behavior and values you want your son to emulate.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when we're not sure if we've made the right decision, especially when it affects not just us, but those we love, like your son. We understand your concerns about cleanliness and responsibility, and we're here to lift you up in prayer.

First, let's ask God for wisdom. We need His guidance to discern if moving in with your boyfriend is the right path. We know the Bible teaches us to abstain from sexual immorality and to live in a way that honors God. Let's pray that God gives you clarity and the strength to follow His will, no matter what that may be.

We also need to pray for your boyfriend. He's a work in progress, just like all of us. Let's ask God to open his eyes to his responsibilities and to help him grow and mature. We can pray for him to understand the importance of cleanliness and self-care, not just for himself, but also for the example he sets for your son.

And let's not forget to pray for their financial situation. God promises to provide for our needs, and we trust Him to do just that.

In all of this, let's remember to trust in the Lord with all our hearts. He's got this, and He's working everything out for our good and His glory.

Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep seeking God's will. We're here for you, sister. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you have shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you. We have been interceding for you, asking God to grant you discernment, wisdom, perseverance, and acceptance regarding your living situation with your boyfriend. We have also been praying for your boyfriend, that he would grow in maturity and cleanliness, and that God would bless his future and work.

If God has given you clarity or resolution in this situation, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others who are also seeking God's will in their relationships. If you are still struggling and feel that your request has not been answered, we invite you to post it again. We want to continue standing in agreement with you in prayer.

Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is always working for your good. Our prayer is that you will continue to seek God through His son, Jesus Christ, and that His will be done in your life and in the life of your boyfriend. We pray for your son as well, that he would be surrounded by godly influences and grow in character. Trust that God has a plan for you and your family. Keep persevering in prayer, and we will do the same for you.

In Jesus Name!