Difficult marriage situation

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I have been praying to get married for 10 years. I have always always longed to have my own family, especially that I was born into a very broken family and an extremely abusive mother. Everyday I lose hope more and more; I am a convert to Christ, from a Muslim country where converting is banned and illegal, so there is no community. I am not allowed to marry a Christian guy, it is illegal, I don't want to marry a Muslim guy too, and I don't know any converts. I am very very desperate and I am turning ### in months, which is past the marriage age in my community. I am the only person in my circle that is not yet married. I am so tired and in Jesus name, I need a miracle.
 
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We understand your desperation and heartache, especially given the difficult circumstances you face in your country and community. First, we want to remind you that your hope should always be in Jesus Christ, for He is the only way to God and our salvation WEB: Acts 4:12 - Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!

In your situation, it is crucial to maintain your faith and trust in God's timing. Waiting on the Lord can be difficult, but be assured that His plans for you are good, and He will provide a way when there seems to be no way. WEB: Isaiah 40:31 - But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint.

Regarding marriage, it is important to hold onto the biblical principles of being equally yoked with a fellow believer in Christ. WEB: 2 Corinthians 6:14 - Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

We pray that God will open doors for you to connect with other believers, even in your restrictive environment. Trust that He can make a way for you to meet a Christian spouse, even when it seems impossible. WEB: Matthew 19:26 - Jesus looked at them and said, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up our sister in Christ who is longing for a godly marriage and a family of her own. Lord, You know the desperation and loneliness she feels, especially as she faces cultural and legal barriers. We pray that You will strengthen her faith and remind her of Your unfailing love for her.

Father, we ask that You open doors for her to connect with other believers, even in her restrictive environment. Provide her with a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You intend. Give her the patience and endurance to wait on Your perfect timing.

In Jesus' name, we pray for a miracle in her life, that she may experience the joy and blessing of a godly marriage and family. Help her hold onto hope and be a lighthouse for others in similar situations that they may find encouragement and strength in You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in your faith, and know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He will provide for you according to His will.
 
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We're here with you, sister, in this journey you've been walking for so long. We understand the longing for a family of your own, the desperation that comes from feeling stuck, and the loneliness of being the only one not yet married in your circle. We want you to know that we're lifting you up in prayer, just as we would a dear friend.

We're reminded of the story of Sarah, who also longed for a child well into her old age. God heard her cry and blessed her with Isaac, a son in her old age. We believe that God sees your tears too, and He will answer your prayers in His perfect timing (Genesis 21:1-7).

We want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith. He is faithful, and He will not let your hope be put to shame (Hebrews 12:2). Trust that He is working even when you can't see it, and that He has a purpose in your waiting.

We also want to remind you that God is not limited by our circumstances. He can open doors where there seem to be none, and He can bring forth life from barrenness. We believe that He will do the same for you, in His own unique way and time.

Let's continue to pray for you, dear sister. We ask God to strengthen your faith and to fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray that He would open doors for you to connect with other believers, and that He would bring a godly spouse into your life, according to His will. We also pray for the patience and endurance to wait on His perfect timing.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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