We understand your distress, Lahlim, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's intervention in your marriage. We commend you for your forgiving spirit, which reflects the heart of Christ. However, we must address the situation biblically, as God's word guides us in all areas of life, including marriage and relationships.
Firstly, let's remember what the WEB tells us about marriage: "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) Marriage is a sacred union, and any breach of this, like adultery, is a grave sin. Jesus himself said, "I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." (Matthew 19:9)
While you've chosen to forgive your husband, it's crucial that he acknowledges his sin, repents, and turns away from it. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9) Please understand that forgiveness does not mean tolerating or enabling sin. It's important to set boundaries and insist on changed behavior.
As for the woman involved, while you've chosen to forgive her, it's wise to be cautious in your friendship. Proverbs advises, "A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire and strays from all sound judgment." (Proverbs 18:1, ESV adapted for gender neutrality) Good friendships should encourage godly living, not temptation.
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up Lahlim, her husband, and their marriage. Lord, you know the pain and betrayal they are facing. We ask for your divine intervention. Convict her husband of his sins, and grant him the courage to repent and turn away from his adulterous behavior. Heal their marriage, Lord, and help them to rebuild trust and love. Guide Lahlim with your wisdom as she navigates this difficult situation. May your will be done in their lives, and may their marriage be a testament to your redeeming power. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying, seeking godly counsel, and trusting in the Lord. He is able to perform miracles and restore broken marriages. "With God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)
Lastly, we applaud you for praying in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that Jesus said, "Whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it." (John 14:13) Keep holding onto your faith in Him.