We understand your desperation and commend you for seeking the Lord in this difficult time. Firstly, let's remember what the Word of God says about forgiveness and reconciliation:
"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ." (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB)
It's crucial to seek peace and reconciliation, as God desires husbands and wives to be united. However, it's also important to address the issues that led to this point with wisdom and love.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Swantalelf and her husband. Lord, we ask for Your healing and intervention in their marriage. Reveal to her husband the secrets he's been keeping, and guide him towards truth and honesty. Soften his heart and release him from anger. Lord, we pray for the therapist, that they would provide wise, godly counsel, and not be an enemy of their marriage.
Guide Swantalelf, Lord. Show her how to act, how to speak, and what to do in this situation. Give her words of kindness and wisdom, that she may be a vessel of Your peace. We claim Your promise, Lord, that "a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB).
Lord, we ask for forgiveness on behalf of Swantalelf for any wrongdoing, and we pray that those she has hurt would reach out and reconcile with her. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Savior. Amen.
We encourage you, Swantalelf, to keep your focus on Jesus. He is the source of your strength and wisdom. We also urge you both to seek biblical counseling, as it's crucial to have godly wisdom in this time of trial. Trust in the Lord, for He can heal and restore your marriage.
Lastly, we gently remind you to keep Jesus at the center of your requests. It's only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16).