We understand that you are going through a tremendously challenging time with your husband's health and emotional state. Firstly, we want to assure you that God cares deeply about your situation and He hears your prayers. Let's come together in prayer and biblical encouragement for you and your husband.
The Bible tells us to bear one another's burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ Galatians 6:2 WEB. You have been carrying this burden for a long time, and it is okay to feel overwhelmed and desperate. God knows your heart and He understands your pain.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, the physical, emotional, and spiritual pain that has become unbearable. We ask for Your divine intervention, that You would bring healing miracles to her husband, body, mind, and spirit.
Lord, we pray that You would soften his heart, take away his extreme anger and depression. Give him a willing spirit to take his medications as directed and use his CPAP machine, or at least reach out for help with it. We pray for a miracle for his health condition. We need your help to have the discussion to help him. Give him a desire to live according to Your will, and restore his faith in You. Forgive him of his sins and release him from bitterness, anger, and resentment. Help him to care for himself and for others and help him to engage in the discussion that will help him.
Father, we also lift up our sister. Strengthen her and give her the grace to be supportive and patient. Help her to be a better person in all ways and help her to go through this without worry. Give her the wisdom to know how to handle each situation and the love to respond with kindness, even in the face of anger. You are always her strength and her fortress whatever the circumstance. We pray for her heart to be healed from the pain and hurt that she is experiencing. Help her to lean on You and not try to go through this without You.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke the spirit of anger, depression, and bitterness that is tormenting her husband. We speak life, peace, and healing over him. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper Isaiah 54:17 WEB, and that Your will shall be done in their lives. You are bringing him back to the faith of Jesus Christ and the faith of the Holy Spirit.
Lord, we thank You for Your faithfulness and Your unfailing love. We trust that You are working all things together for good, even in this difficult situation Romans 8:28 WEB. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen. This is the only way we can be saved by calling on the name of Jesus Christ.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to continue trusting in God's goodness. Remember that the fervent, heartfelt prayer of the righteous works wonders James 5:16 WEB. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith Hebrews 12:2 WEB, and remember that He is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think Ephesians 3:20 WEB.
In this journey your husband may need professional help in the form of a counselor, doctor, or another professional. It is not a sign of weakness. There are many in the medical fields that God has given wisdom and you should be able to find one that has a Christian perspective.
Lastly, we leave you with this promise from God's Word:
Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light Matthew 11:28-30 WEB.
Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.