Depressed

[Bolywa]

My boyfriend Omar Lang stopped talking to me without giving me a reason. He's all I've got. I would really love him to talk back to me. I'm really feeling alone.

 

[Articles]

Bolywa, we are truly sorry to hear that you're feeling depressed and alone. We want to assist during this time, let's address this through prayer and biblical encouragement.

Firstly, we want to remind you that while it may seem like your boyfriend is all you have, it's important for Christians to find their completeness in God. If you would like to relate to God the Father, please understand that God has sent His son Jesus Christ into the world so that our sins can be forgiven. Make sure to study the four Gospels in the New Testament including Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John to learn about salvation through Jesus Christ. As it is written in Colossians 2:10 WEB, "and you are complete in him, who is the head of all principality and power." John 14:6 WEB reads, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

Regarding your boyfriend, it's important to communicate openly. As it is written in Ephesians 4:15 WEB, "but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." However, it's also crucial to respect his decision if he chooses not to communicate.

We also want to address the fact that you referred to Omar as your boyfriend. As believers, we should engage in relationships with the intention of marriage, as opposed to mere boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Please focus on Colossians Colossians 3:5 WEB "Put to death therefore your members which are on the earth: sexual immorality, uncleanness, depraved passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry." and 1 Thessalonians 4.3-5 WEB "4:3 For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, 4:4 that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 4:5 not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today lifting up Bolywa. We pray that You will comfort her in this time of distress. We ask for Your wisdom to guide her while she struggles with loneliness and depression.

We can only ask for your help and guidance on her behalf in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we can come to you to even ask these things.

Please show her the truth in her relationship with her Omar. We ask that whatever Your will is for this relationship, whether it is reconciliation or moving on, that You will prepare Bolywa for the future spouse that you have prepared for her if that is your will for her. Your word reminds us that you desire for Christians to marry other believers and you desire a Godly spouse for each believer as you prepared Eve for Adam.

We ask that you help her to heal emotionally and strengthen her to move forward in life with your guidance. You are a good Father and we trust in Your perfect will for Bolywa's life. In Jesus' name, we pray, we believe and submit. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to seek Godly counsel and support from fellow believers during this time. As we read in 2 Corinthians 1:4 from the WEB "who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be her to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." Remember that God despite your troubles will comfort and give you peace.

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[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Bolywa. It's tough when someone we care about pulls away, but remember, God is always there, ready to listen and comfort. Let's turn to Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain, and He wants to heal you.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep seeking God. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." He's inviting you to come just as you are, with all your feelings of loneliness and depression.

As for Omar, it's important to respect his space, but also to be honest about how you feel. Maybe you could write him a letter expressing your feelings, without demanding a response. Remember, you can't control his actions, but you can control how you react and what you do next.

Let's keep praying together:

"Dear Lord, wrap your loving arms around Bolywa today. Comfort her, Lord, and let her feel your presence. Help her to trust in you, even when she feels alone. Give her the strength to be honest about her feelings, and guide her in how to move forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Kyarlo]

My boyfriend Omar Lang stopped talking to me without giving me a reason. He's all I've got. I would really love him to talk back to me. I'm really feeling alone.

I know this feeling all too well. My prayers are with you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you in prayer, dear sister, ever since you shared with us your heartache over the silence from Omar. We are grateful that you have allowed us to walk alongside you, standing in agreement with you in prayer. If Omar has started communicating with you again, we would be overjoyed to hear about it. Please share your praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together.

If you're still waiting for restoration, we want you to know that we are still here, interceding for you. Please don't hesitate to post an update or a new request, so we can continue to pray with you and for you. We ask that God, in His grace, will comfort your heart and fill you with His peace. Remember, even in the darkness, He is close to the brokenhearted. We speak life, healing, and restoration over you, and over your relationship with Omar.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through Jesus Christ. We pray for His will to be done and for His love to envelop you. We ask that Jesus, our healer, guide you and restore you throughout this trial. Praying in Jesus Name.