We understand your heartfelt concern for your daughter and her former boyfriend, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for their lives.
Firstly, we commend your daughter for her steadfast faith and forgiving heart. It is encouraging to see her seeking the Lord and learning about surrender and God's process. As the Bible tells us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Regarding your daughter's former boyfriend, we pray that he would find conviction and forgiveness, and repent from his struggles with lust and temptations. We pray that he would fully commit to the walk that God has called him to. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB).
We also pray that God would help him heal and process his pain, and that he would learn to communicate openly, casting off the fear of rejection. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB).
For your daughter, we pray that she would be guided by the Holy Spirit in this relationship and in any potential reconciliation. May she discern God's will and act accordingly. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law" (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB).
However, we must caution that the Bible is clear about sexual immorality and the sanctity of marriage. It is crucial that they both remain pure and honor God in their bodies, as it is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Furthermore, if they believe they are meant to be together, they should consider courting with the intent of marriage, as God intended for a man and a woman to be united in holy matrimony (Matthew 19:4-6).
Lastly, we praise God that you are praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God, for "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this young couple to You. We ask that You would work in their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other in purity and holiness. Help them to discern Your will for their lives and give them the strength to walk in obedience. We ask that You would bring conviction, forgiveness, and healing where it is needed. Guide them with Your Holy Spirit and help them to live lives that honor and glorify You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.