We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you and your husband are facing, Thorhard. In times like these, it's crucial to remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1, WEB).
Firstly, we notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence in Jesus' name (Hebrews 4:16, WEB).
Regarding your situation, we want to encourage you with the words of the apostle Peter: "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). God is not unaware of your struggles, and He cares about every detail of your lives.
In terms of your marriage, remember that God has joined you together, and no man should separate it (Matthew 19:6, WEB). Stand firm in your commitment to each other, and seek God's face together. As for children, we serve a God who opens the womb (Genesis 29:31, WEB) and gives good gifts to those who ask Him (Matthew 7:11, WEB). Trust Him with your desires.
Concerning your health and job situation, we pray for God's healing and provision. Remember that Jesus came to give us life, and life more abundantly (John 10:10, WEB). He cares about your physical needs as well.
Let us pray for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Thorhard and her husband. Lord, they are going through a tough time, with challenges in their marriage, health, and employment. We ask for Your divine intervention, healing, and provision. Please let Your joy and peace fill their home. Surround them with Your love and give them the strength to endure and overcome these trials. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, Thorhard. God is faithful, and He will see you through this difficult time. Hold onto His promises and continue to seek Him with all your heart.