Deep infatuation

[Telofay]

I met this absolutely gorgeous man. He looks like a dream and he is very sweet. However he is a player, and European. He wants American papers and I want European papers. He showed tons of interest in sleeping with me but I have said no every time (im waiting till marriage). I like the vibes that I have felt when we are together, he is adventurous and so masculine. He's charismatic and also quiet. But he is very good with women and has countless female friends. He made some plans with me and then didn't follow through. So I ghosted him, I stopped replying to his group messages. I was too afraid of where things were going. I don't trust him but I LOVE (lust) him. He is 4 years older than me and I like how much more in control he is with me. Now I miss him like crazy but he already posted pictures online of him with another woman although I know its nothing serious. I pray that God brings this man to me if he is right for me and I pray that if he is not right for me then God lets me know and help me move on.

 

[Articles]

Telofay, we understand your feelings of infatuation for this man, but it's crucial to discern God's will for your life and align your desires with His. Let's address the issues in your request and turn to the scriptures to help guide our prayers and advice.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that physical attraction and feelings of love can be powerful, but they should not be the only foundation for a relationship. The Bible teaches us to be discerning and to look for godly characteristics in a potential spouse. This man, as described, may not be exhibiting the fruits of the Spirit, such as faithfulness, goodness, and self-control, as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."

Secondly, it's concerning that this man is known for being a "player" and has many female friends. This could indicate a lack of commitment and faithfulness, which are essential qualities in a godly husband. Additionally, his interest in obtaining American papers and your desire for European papers should not be the basis for a relationship. A godly marriage should be built on shared faith, values, and a mutual desire to honor and serve the Lord together.

We commend you for your commitment to wait until marriage for intimacy, as this aligns with biblical principles. However, it's also important to address the issue of lust. The Bible warns us against allowing our desires to control us. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-19, it says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?"

It's also important to address the fact that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it's in His name that we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:12, "And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved."

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Telofay and her situation. Lord, we ask that You guide her heart and mind, and help her to discern Your will for her life. Help her to see this man through Your eyes, and to desire a godly husband who will honor and cherish her as You do.

Lord, we ask that You give Telofay the strength to resist temptation and to flee from sexual immorality. Help her to keep her body as a temple of the Holy Spirit, and to honor You with her thoughts, words, and actions.

Father, we pray for Telofay's future husband, that You would prepare him and bring him into her life at the right time. We ask that he would be a man who loves You, who is faithful and committed, and who shares Telofay's values and desires.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You fill Telofay with Your peace and joy, and that she would trust in You to bring her the desires of her heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Telofay, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. Remember that God has a plan for you, and that He desires the best for you. Stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you, Telofay, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We understand that feelings can be complex, especially when they're tied to someone who seems so captivating. But remember, God's love for you is the greatest love you'll ever know, and His plans for you are good.

We're a bit concerned about the situation with this man. It's great that you're waiting for marriage, but it's also important to ensure that the person you're waiting for is worth it. From what you've shared, it seems like there are some red flags. His behavior with women, his lack of follow-through on plans, and his interest in you only for papers, they all point to a lack of genuine commitment.

We want to encourage you to keep your heart pure. Lust can cloud our judgment and lead us astray. Remember, your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and you should honor God with it. Flee from anything that might lead you into sexual immorality.

We've been praying for you, Telofay. We're asking God to give you wisdom and discernment. We're asking Him to guide your heart and help you see this man, and any other potential partner, through God's eyes. We're asking Him to prepare a godly man for you, someone who will love and honor you as Christ loves the church.

Remember, God's timing is perfect. Trust in Him, and trust in His love for you. He sees you, He knows your heart, and He wants the best for you. Stay strong, keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and know that you're never alone. We're here for you, and so is God.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, regarding the situation you shared about your feelings for the man you met. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you.

We pray that God grants you discernment and guidance as you navigate this complex situation. We pray that if this man is part of God's plan for your life, that the Lord would make it clear and draw you both closer to Him. We also pray that if this man is not intended for you, that God would give you the strength and wisdom to move forward, trusting in His perfect will.

If you have seen any signs of God's answer to your prayers, we would be delighted if you could share a praise report with us all. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please don't hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are here to continue praying with you and for you.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that the Lord would grant you peace, clarity, and the courage to trust in His timing and plan for your life. We pray all of this in Jesus' Name.