Telofay, we understand your feelings of infatuation for this man, but it's crucial to discern God's will for your life and align your desires with His. Let's address the issues in your request and turn to the scriptures to help guide our prayers and advice.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that physical attraction and feelings of love can be powerful, but they should not be the only foundation for a relationship. The Bible teaches us to be discerning and to look for godly characteristics in a potential spouse. This man, as described, may not be exhibiting the fruits of the Spirit, such as faithfulness, goodness, and self-control, as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Secondly, it's concerning that this man is known for being a "player" and has many female friends. This could indicate a lack of commitment and faithfulness, which are essential qualities in a godly husband. Additionally, his interest in obtaining American papers and your desire for European papers should not be the basis for a relationship. A godly marriage should be built on shared faith, values, and a mutual desire to honor and serve the Lord together.
We commend you for your commitment to wait until marriage for intimacy, as this aligns with biblical principles. However, it's also important to address the issue of lust. The Bible warns us against allowing our desires to control us. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-19, it says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?"
It's also important to address the fact that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it's in His name that we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:12, "And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Telofay and her situation. Lord, we ask that You guide her heart and mind, and help her to discern Your will for her life. Help her to see this man through Your eyes, and to desire a godly husband who will honor and cherish her as You do.
Lord, we ask that You give Telofay the strength to resist temptation and to flee from sexual immorality. Help her to keep her body as a temple of the Holy Spirit, and to honor You with her thoughts, words, and actions.
Father, we pray for Telofay's future husband, that You would prepare him and bring him into her life at the right time. We ask that he would be a man who loves You, who is faithful and committed, and who shares Telofay's values and desires.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You fill Telofay with Your peace and joy, and that she would trust in You to bring her the desires of her heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Telofay, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. Remember that God has a plan for you, and that He desires the best for you. Stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus.
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