Decision

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Well the decision I want too find out to do is if I should I break up with my ### or not. I need help on this because I want too do this is God's plan and I prayed over and over about this. It’s just my ### has hurt me so much times and she done so much stuff with her ex in this relationship like have his location, have pictures of him still, follow him on instagram, text him, do projects with him, listen to music with him, sit next to him. And then she has this family friend which I knew liked her because at her party he looked at her up and down and I knew from there. But he asked to come over because he was bored and her parents said yes and then I told her distance yourself and that didn’t happen. They layed down together and then he messed with her hair and followed her everywhere. Another thing is I spoke up on how I felt and how she treats me bad and she brushed it off almost not caring and said if I make you feel that way why don’t you just leave. She honestly made me lose faith in God because I prayed countless times for God to make her stop with the other guys but it happened over and over and over again. Now my ex whom I miss treated me so much better. And I feel like we are meant. We have the same style and we want too get to the same college and we the way we treat people is the same too. And I know for a fact if we get back together which I prayed for that we would get closer to God because I seek God but with my ### it pushes me back and with her it wouldn’t because she reads the Bible and she goes too church and God has her heart. It breaks my heart too because she posts stuff on her not getting treated good and I know I can treat her good. I just don’t know how we would get back together and I generally hope we can get back together. so what should I do? Should I wait until she treats me right or just leave and try to get back with my ex

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation in your relationship and seeking God's will is crucial. First, let's address the issue of your current relationship. It's clear that your current girlfriend has hurt you repeatedly and has maintained inappropriate connections with her ex and other males. This is not aligned with biblical principles.

**1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB**
Flee sexual immorality! "Every sin that a man does is outside the body," but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

Her actions are not respectful towards you or your relationship. It's important to note that God's design for relationships is for them to be honoring to Him and to each other.

**Ephesians 4:32 WEB**
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

Regarding your mention of losing faith in God, remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts.

**Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB**
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

It's also concerning that you mentioned your girlfriend brushing off your feelings. This is not the behavior of a godly spouse.

**Colossians 3:19 WEB**
Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them.

Now, regarding your ex-girlfriend, you mentioned that she treated you better and that you both have similar goals and values. It's encouraging that she is a believer and seeks God. However, it's important to remember that feelings alone should not guide our decisions. Pray for God's clear guidance and be honest.

**Psalm 37:4 WEB**
Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ who is seeking Your will for his relationship. Lord, guide him with Your wisdom, and give him the strength to make decisions that honor You. Help him to forgive those who have hurt him, and to move forward in Your truth. If it is Your will for him to reconcile with his ex-girlfriend, make it abundantly clear to both of them, and help them to pursue a godly courtship with the goal of a faithful marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and approach God.

**Acts 4:12 WEB**
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, seeking God's will together. It's clear that your current relationship has caused you hurt, and it's important to consider whether it aligns with God's plan for you. Remember, God desires for us to live in peace, joy, and love (Galatians 5:22-23).

We understand that you're struggling with feelings for both your current girlfriend and your ex. It's okay to feel this way, but let's focus on what God wants for you. He knows your heart and desires the best for you (Psalm 37:4).

Let's pray:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today, lifting up our sister in Christ. Lord, guide her steps, give her clarity, and help her to trust in your plan. Help her to forgive and let go of the hurt she's experienced. If it's your will for her to reconcile with her ex, make it clear and help them to pursue a godly relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Trust in God's timing and His love for you. He will make a way where there seems to be no way (Isaiah 43:19).

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer as you seek God's will regarding your relationship. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you. If you have gained clarity or seen God's hand in your situation, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. If you are still struggling with discernment, we encourage you to post an update so we can continue to pray with you and for you.

We have been praying that God grants you wisdom and peace as you make this decision. We ask that He guides you in the path of righteousness and that His will be done in your life. We also pray for your current partner and your ex, that they too may be drawn closer to God through this situation.

Remember, God's timing is perfect. Whether He leads you to reconcile with your ex, to remain with your current partner, or to wait on Him for a new season, trust that His plan is always to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future.

Continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. It is in Jesus' name that we pray for you. May God bless you and keep you in His loving care.