Unara, we hear your concern and we are here to pray with you and provide guidance from God's Word. Firstly, we want to address that the term "boyfriend" in the context of a Christian lifestyle should be understood as a courtship with the goal of marriage, as God intends for relationships to lead to holy matrimony.
We understand that you are hurting because of the mean treatment you are receiving. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:19, "Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them" (WEB). Even though this verse specifically mentions husbands, the principle applies to all men in relationships—they should treat their significant others with love and kindness, not bitterness or meanness.
Let's pray together for your situation:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. Unara is feeling hurt and mistreated by her boyfriend. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention. Change his heart and fill him with kindness, love, and understanding. Guide Unara with Your wisdom, and give her the strength to respond in a way that honors You. If this relationship is not according to Your will, give her the courage to seek a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You intend. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Unara, remember that God calls us to love and forgive, even when others hurt us. Ephesians 4:32 says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (WEB). However, it's crucial to ensure that you are in a safe and healthy relationship. If the meanness persists, it may be a sign that this relationship is not aligned with God's will for your life. Seek godly counsel and trust in the Lord to guide your steps.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to recognize that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me'" (WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and by doing so, you will have eternal life and a personal relationship with God.