Dear lord, i know i have done ...

Anonymous · Aug 1, 2024

Dear Lord, I know I have done so many mistakes in my life. Please forgive me for all my sins and for all my mistakes. And thank God for always being there for me. Lord, please save my marriage from divorce. Please, my husband ### hates me a lot. He doesn't want to see my face. He made his mind that he doesn't want to stay with me. Even his family hates me because of his family. He is leaving me, and his friends are all bad influences to him. I don't know why people don't like me. I have done nothing to them, still, they hate me. Please, Lord, make my husband ### realize all the mistakes he has done. I want my husband to come back to me, and I want to see my love for him. I really love him. I can't move on. I don't want a divorce. It's been ### months, I am waiting for him. He is not ready to see my face, and he is happy without me. Please, God, his family planned against me to separate both of us. Please open my husband's eyes. I was always there for him. I never hurt his parents. His mom used to treat me like household help. She was never letting my husband talk with me, and his sisters even used to interfere. They got married still, they interfere in our life. They used to manipulate my husband towards me, and they all together put poison in my husband's mind against me. I don't know how to pray, how to soften my husband's heart towards me. He listens to his family. As his family says, he will do that. He wants to fight against me to prove me wrong everywhere. I want my husband to love me back. Jesus, between us, nothing happened. I don't know all of a sudden what happened that he left me. His family manipulated. Please, Lord, save my marriage. Please, I really miss my husband. I can't stay without him. Please send him back. Please, his friends are all making him move on from me. All are bad influences being there with my husband. If my husband thinks I am not the right girl for him, please save my marriage without any court case. I don't want to spoil my life. Please make my husband understand that if we go to court, our life will be spoiled. Please stop him from giving a divorce. I want my husband to take a stand for me, at least now, and to save our marriage. I want him to love me. I want him not to see other women. I want him to miss me. I don't want him to move on from me. I want my husband back in my life. Lord, I want my family and his family to reunite with love again. And my husband's family never bows down for anything. Please break their ego and please break my husband's ego. Please, Lord, every day I am waiting for my husband to come back to me. Every day, I am waiting to sort out this situation within the family. I don't want to put an FIR, but my family wants me to put an FIR because my husband's family also wants us to go to court. I really don't want to fight against my husband. Please stop my husband also from fighting against me. I am blank. I never thought me and my husband would get separated. We were loving so much. Suddenly, someone did black magic and spoiled my marriage. Even his mom does this all. She used to hate me from before. She wanted her son to marry some other girl, so she planned all this and manipulated her son. She used to do emotional blackmail in front of her son, so my husband should leave me now also. She said to her son, "If my husband comes back to me, she will do suicide." Please, I want my husband to keep me over her. His mother used to come between us and she used to make huge fights between us, and my husband used to blindly trust her. Please open my husband's eyes so he can come back to me. Now, I am staying at my mom's place. I want my husband to come and pick me soon and to take a separate home and will stay together. I don't want to stay with his parents. They used to torture me a lot, and my husband can't leave his mom because his mom does emotional blackmail. She will die off, and all, and his mom can't see her son happy with his wife. Please remove all bad influences from my husband's life and change my husband's heart and mind towards me. Please. My husband is going in the wrong path. He is changing himself to move on from me. Please remind him how we used to love each other, how special I used to treat him. I pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

Articles · Aug 1, 2024

We understand your pain and the deep desire for reconciliation in your marriage. Let's first remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We must trust in His power to restore and heal.

However, we must also address some critical issues in your request. The Bible teaches us to love and respect our spouses, and it’s clear that communication and understanding are vital. Paul urges us, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25). Similarly, wives are to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33).

It’s concerning to hear about the alleged manipulation and interference by your husband's family. The Bible advises, "Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation, and every city or house divided against itself will not stand" (Matthew 12:25). It’s crucial to cultivate unity and love within the family.

Regarding the claim of black magic, the Bible clearly states, "You shall not suffer a sorceress to live" (Exodus 22:18). Engaging in or believing in such practices is against God's will. Instead, trust in God’s sovereignty and power to protect and guide you.

We must also remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Jesus said, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15).

Let’s pray together:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in ###’s marriage. Lord, we know that You are a God of restoration and healing. We ask that You touch ###’s heart and open his eyes to the truth. Remove any negative influences and manipulations from his life. Help him to see the love and devotion that ### has for him. Lord, we pray for unity and understanding between their families. Break any bonds of manipulation and control, and let Your peace and love reign. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.*

Remember, "With God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26). Trust in His timing and His will for your life. Continue to seek Him in prayer and study His Word for guidance and comfort. May God bless and keep you.

Felic · Aug 1, 2024