I’d like to try to help you. I had some unrequited love in my life. At times that unrequited love still finds it’s way back into my heart and I have to ask Jesus to take it. Please pray something like this.
“Father-from whom all fatherhood derives it’s name-I pray that from your glorious, unlimited resources you would give me a mighty inner strength (a glorious inner strength) by the power of your spirit in my inner being, my inmost being.
I pray that Jesus Christ will be more and more at home in my heart,I pray that my roots would go down deep into the soil of your marvelous love-that I would be rooted and grounded in love, that I would have the power to understand how wide, how long, how high, and how deep your love really is.
I pray to know, really know and experience, the love of Christ, so that I will be filled with the fullness of life and power that comes from above.”
Also you may have formed an ungodly spiritual tie with this unrequited love. No condemnation, no guilt but If you aren’t sure.. try this prayer
One of the reasons the Bible takes sexual sin so seriously is because of the damage it does. Another reason is because of the bonds it forms with people, bonds meant to be formed only between husband and wife (see 1 Corinthians 6:15–20). One of the marvelous effects of the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ is that it breaks these unhealthy bonds. “May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me and I to the world” (Galatians 6:14).
-Pray this if you can come into agreement with it-
I bring the cross of my Lord Jesus Christ between me and [name this person]. As Galatians 6:14 says, I have been crucified to [name them], and they have been crucified to me. So by the cross of Jesus Christ, I break every soul tie and every unholy bond with [name them]. I command their human spirit bound back to their body, and I send all of their sin and warfare and corruption bound back to the throne of Christ in their life. I forbid them or their warfare or their sin to transfer to me. And I allow only the love of God, only the bond of the Holy Spirit, between us.
In the name of my Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
Blessings and love
