We appreciate your heartfelt prayer and your desire to do what is right. It is commendable that you seek to handle situations wisely and grow in your devotion to God. Let us address your concerns and pray together. Firstly, it is crucial to acknowledge that it is through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in the WEB John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Also, in Acts 4:12, the Apostle Peter teaches there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
First it is important to address what Swantalfel means that they hope for the best but their family has rough edges. Here we learn a crucial and applicable lesson for self-control and dealing with difficult people. Love them especially when their way is not our way. WEB 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 teaches, Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Your desire to control your reactions and respond with wisdom is biblical. WEB Proverbs 15:1 teaches, A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Regarding communicating with difficult people, we also remember WEB 1 Corinthians 1:10 where the Apostle Paul encourages believers, Now I beg you, brothers, through the name of our Jesus Christ, that you all speak the same thing and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfected together in the same mind and in the same judgment.
Lastly, you mentioned concern about speaking to much and to that end, WEB Proverbs 10:19 teaches, In a multitude of words there is no lack of disobedience.
We pray for you Swantalfel and ask that you would consider whether you can ever be saved and truly devoted outside Jesus Christ. Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your loving-kindness and for the grace You have shown to Swantalfel and to us. We pray for the family of Swantalfel, that they would come to know You and do right by Swantalfel through the Holy Spirit's guidance. Help Swantalfel to grow in wisdom and self-control, responding to situations with a clear mind and a heart full of love. Strengthen them to communicate effectively with difficult people and through this help them become a testimony of Your love. We ask our Lord Jesus that he be devoted by faith in Jesus Christ to You. In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.