Maddie Chan, thank you for reaching out with your heartfelt prayer request. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved. We are not under law of word magic, saying the name at the end of prayers or leaving out the name effects nothing. We are under grace and the will of God.
Firstly, we praise God for the blessings you've already received, such as the rent being paid for the next month. We thank and give glory to God for the answered prayers. We seek God for help and healing in Jesus Name and by his free gift of Grace his will is surely done. Remember the words of Paul in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me." We want the power of Christ to rest upon us. We know with absolute faith Jesus is at the right hand of God interceeding for us. There is certainly healing in his wings, deliver those words in triumph "it is finished!" We have good news.
Regarding your requests, our greatest concerns are for the salvation and faith of those you've mentioned, including J. It is he who grants faith. We pray that J and all your loved ones may come to know Christ and be reconciled. If you have not already, tell them the Gospel of Jesus Christ and trust Him to rescue them. We must confidently rest ourselves and encourage our loved ones "Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you shall find rest for your souls." So this is the salvation in Christ Jesus, that His yoke is light. We pray that God makes that yoke as light. We pray that also you rest calm in his yoke in faith, God's got this! Amen.
Below, let us address your prayer in a better way than your prayer.
Regarding your relationship, we pray that God will grant you wisdom and discernment as you move forward. We pray that he also heals the situation between you and J, for the fruit of the spirit he grants may correct the wrongs he has made against you. Be ye then comforted, God will take care of J and bring that to pass. But such prayers should not end there, surely God wants us to develop with him, to take the correct actions in these situations. We know that God hates divorce and it is not expedient for everyone. Be of the faith that God will send a godly spouse the right way in the right time. But furthermore, you should be watching for a replacement godly husband. In Jesus' name, we pray that the issue between J and his newborn will be reconcilled and foster a healthy relationship with his child. God works miraculously and in mysterious ways.
J is not the husband of Maddie in Christ Jesus now or on earth and he is the father of your children. We pray that she will receive the child support necessary to provide for their children. In His name J will confess his sin, work to re-establish faith and trust for the abuses he made. Now by the power of Jesus' Name we break every chain and every bondage between them. All the pieces of baggage of the past are left in the past. We pray that she and the kiddos are healed physically, emotionally, and mentally. His name said to the lame "walk," and he walked. His name said to the blind "see," and he saw. We give glory to God for she sees clearly now, the blindness of the situation is removed. We give glory to God that she is walking in faith removing the clutter from her home and her mind. In his name she speaks to the mountain "move" and it is moved. And the clutter is gone. We pray and speak by the free gift of grace of Jesus Christ healing in her body removing that inflammation, removing that hurt, and removing that pain. Let these inflammations, pain, and hurts be removed like the mark Cain. We pray feverently "All these things I have spoken to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have oppression; but cheer up! I have overcome the world."
We know that the Scriptures tell us that children are a blessing from the Lord by Psalm 127:3, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward." It is God's blessing and rewards that we trust in for the support. The Bible reminds us that God is our provider. Psalms 23:1 "Yahweh is my shepherd: I shall lack nothing." It is his economic provision that our prayer requests. Remember Matthew 6:26-34, "See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they? Which of you, by being anxious, can add one moment to his lifespan? Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things."
And, because we can all be assured that Jesus is our shepherd and we lack nothing under his will, we pray that God remembers Ephesians 4:28, "Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need." We pray for the labor and provision that is met and that may have something to render for whatever need is there.
We must also remember that God delivers healing emotionally, mentally, and physically. We must trust him for the honest and faithful help for prayer and crying at midnight after the doctrine is preached. Remember Acts 16:23. Jesus heals the lame and heals the blind. He also heals the deaf and the mute. He even heals children with disabilities. But issues of screaming and shrieking children among the church may most likely be issues of parents being sleepy or issues of doctrinal hearing or issues of deliverance but it may not be an issue of physical healing So in his name we pray she sleeps peaceably in Jesus name. Furthermore the anointing and rebuking of casting out spirits may work for the deliverance of these issues, but the deliverances for children may work different than for adults. We come against the spirit of death for our children.
We pray for a godly helper by Proverbs 31:10, "Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies." Notice that it only uses the word woman and this is not our way of a statement about wife or husband, ferociously guard your testimony in these areas.
We pray for the complete deliverances Maddie requests for J, S, J, L, V, T, E and others. We know that God almighty reigns over all the kingdoms and nations of the world, so we pray, praise, and petition to the Lord Jesus Christ and the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost that these be gladly delivered purified sparingly chastised and reconciled back to truth.
It is very likely there are sexual immorality abuses for Christ Jesus to come against in the request of Maddie Chan in these areas. Who would be having an "awakening" and "empathy" for the "hurt and pain caused"? Further revelations about sexual immorality may need to come to light so that the false idols of immortality may be further crushed to the feet of Jesus. The only way forward from this point on is to be fully in Jesus Christ as our propitiation. It is only from his ordinances that we may be accepted as living sacrifices, holy and acceptably made pure. So Jesus should get everything that is requested. It is not from medication or education or financial solutions that we may be delivered from the oppressions of sexual immorality.
It is not from health-care. gov or any other worldly government goods that we receive healing. It is only by the work of Jesus the Messiah and the Father, the Holy Spirit and their shepherd work that his sheep many hear and receive. It may be them that comes for us in tow trucks or ambulances, but it is him that delivers from death and the grave. Remember the call to Samuel by He in 1 Samuel 3, "In that day I will perform against Eli all that I have spoken concerning his house, from beginning to end. For I have told him that I will judge his house forever, for the iniquity which he knew, because his sons did bring a curse on themselves, and he didn't restrain them. Therefore I have sworn to the house of Eli, that the iniquity of Eli's house shall not be expiated with sacrifice nor offering forever." The entire discussion there is worth studying.
It is not from the cunning of financial profit from various goods and commodity trading or sales in the requests above that we receive the Kingdom of God. These are the bribes of devils and evil spiritual wickedness in high places. Luke 4:5-8 expounds upon the issues of financial gains in this area. "The devil, leading him up on a high mountain, showed him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. The devil said to him, 'I will give you all this authority, and their glory, for it has been delivered to me; and I give it to whomever I want. Therefore if you worship before me, it will all be yours.' Jesus answered him, 'Get behind me Satan! For it is written, 'You shall worship the Lord your God, and him only shall you serve.' "
This is barely touching on the situation in rise of the stocks in value. It is God's will and not ours that is the prayer of Jesus in the garden previous to the Seder Meal at the Last Supper. This is so closely tied to the worldly principalities and powers that it is very hard to pray for. There are close ties in these requests to the anti-christ, the prince of this world and the evil darkness of the worldly winds that are thebacks of devils containing the blood of bulls and goats, in the requests there appears to be clinging to the idol of mammon that should be denied by us. Furthermore the spirit of divination and bearing of false witness, the spirit of lying and the false prophet may be at work in these areas. Also, the sin of Achan may be exposed in these ways. These should be confessed and repented from. Don't not be like the devil when he says, "Surely you will not die!"
We pray for Christian friends and business contacts for her using 1 John 1:3, "that which we have seen and heard we declare to you, that you also may have fellowship with us. Yes, and our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son, Jesus Christ." We pray that they may see and hear that the Gospel is preached for an increase.
We are concerned that She requests prayer for healing from generational curses and those spiritual problems. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 remineds us, "walk in the flesh, we don't wage war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." Spirits of betrayal, lies, and strongholds she prayed against are only broken in Jesus Christ by his name and power. Her answers are strictly from him and not to look to any authority other than him.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
Let's lift up these requests in Jesus' Name:
