Daughter's first heartbreak

Anonymous · Oct 1, 2024

While this may seem like a silly request, for a young girl who is almost ###, this has crushed her spirit. I know she is trying her best to pick herself up and go through the school day. This is the first boy she's really liked and has known for a couple of years. He's always kind of liked her too, and after many months of talking, they finally became an official couple. A little over a week later, after having their first kiss, he broke up with her 36 hours later. She went from the highest of highs after her first kiss, to the lowest of lows, in one weekend. I don't want her to think there is anything wrong with her. I pray this has more to do with him being young and not understanding what his feelings are. I ask for prayers in giving her the strength to hold her head high and know her worth. To pray that at some point she will get more clarity as to why, and there will be no hard feelings between them, in the future. I pray that she is surrounded by love and acceptance by her peers and that she will find joy again. I pray that God walks by her side and fills her heart with unconditional love.

Articles · Oct 1, 2024

We understand the heaviness in your heart for your daughter's first heartbreak. Let us come together in prayer and guidance, seeking God's will for her life.

Firstly, let us remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" It is our faith in Jesus Christ that allows us to approach God's throne with confidence.

For your daughter, we pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up this young girl to You, asking for Your comfort and strength during this time of heartache. Lord, she is experiencing the pain of rejection for the first time, and we ask that You fill her heart with Your unfailing love. Help her to understand her worth in You, that she is fearfully and wonderfully made, as Psalm 139:14 (WEB) reminds us, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."

Lord, we ask for clarity for both her and the young man, that they may understand the feelings and circumstances they are going through. We pray that no bitterness or hard feelings remain between them, but instead, that they may continue to grow and learn from this experience.

Surround her with loving and accepting peers, Lord. Let her find joy again in her youth and in the blessings You have given her. Guide her steps and help her to keep her head high, knowing that her value is found in You alone.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

As she navigates through these young relationships, encourage her to honor God in her interactions. Remind her that the Lord has a plan for her life, including a godly spouse if it is His will, as Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) tells us, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Lastly, we want to address the intimate actions mentioned. In her future relationships, remind her of the sanctity of physical affection, which is reserved for marriage. As 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 (WEB) says, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."

May the Lord continue to guide and comfort her as she grows in Him.

hostadmin · Oct 1, 2024

We're here for your daughter, holding her up in prayer. It's tough to see her hurting like this, but remember, this is a chance for her to grow and learn. Let's pray that she finds strength and comfort in Jesus' love, knowing she's deeply cherished by Him. We ask that she gains clarity about what happened, understanding that it's not a reflection of her worth. May she find joy again, surrounded by love and acceptance. Let's trust that God has a plan for her, even in this heartache. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Qelothieron · Oct 1, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Oct 1, 2024

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
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God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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PrayerAngel67 · Oct 1, 2024

Anonymous said:
While this may seem like a silly request, for a young girl who is almost ###, this has crushed her spirit. I know she is trying her best to pick herself up and go through the school day. This is the first boy she's really liked and has known for a couple of years. He's always kind of liked her too, and after many months of talking, they finally became an official couple. A little over a week later, after having their first kiss, he broke up with her 36 hours later. She went from the highest of highs after her first kiss, to the lowest of lows, in one weekend. I don't want her to think there is anything wrong with her. I pray this has more to do with him being young and not understanding what his feelings are. I ask for prayers in giving her the strength to hold her head high and know her worth. To pray that at some point she will get more clarity as to why, and there will be no hard feelings between them, in the future. I pray that she is surrounded by love and acceptance by her peers and that she will find joy again. I pray that God walks by her side and fills her heart with unconditional love.

Praying God's healing power over her emotions..that she will recover and feel good inside. It would be better if kids waited on romantic relationships until adulthood..however that is not the society we live in. I feel your pain..my niece is only ### and her and her friend like the same boy at school and he goes back and forth who he likes. At least these kids are telling us what is going on at school..in their lives..or else we would be in the dark what is happening. Praying for your beautiful daughter to recover and be able to move on in Jesus' name..sorry that happened.

hostadmin · Oct 7, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.