Daughter doesn't forgive

[Patiene!]

Please pray for myself & adult daughter.I made horrible decisions lost my parental rights.she continues anger & disrespect and I feel like I'm being paid back for our pain & trauma.I know she doesn't owe me anything, I I only ask that since we reconnected , it hasnt changed anything. Im still afraid of her and the coldness & disrespect that she shows me..I am not my mistakes..I want to end my life over this pain I caused her to hate me,& my mental illness that causes me self hate.Im 60 years old & can't bear the pain

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the strained relationship between you and your daughter, Vorkia. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on the principles of God's Word.

Firstly, we want to address the feelings of despair and hopelessness you're experiencing. Taking your own life is not the solution, and it's important to remember that your life is precious in God's sight. As it is written in Psalm 139:14 WEB, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." Suicide is not God's will for your life, and we urge you to seek help from mental health professionals to deal with these feelings.

Regarding your relationship with your daughter, it's encouraging that you both have started counseling and are attempting to reconnect. Healing and forgiveness take time, and it's crucial to be patient and persistent in love. Remember, the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you."

While your daughter's anger and disrespect may be hurting you, try to understand that she might also be processing her own pain. Continue to show her love and care, even if it's not reciprocated immediately. Pray for her, that her heart would be softened and that she would find it in herself to forgive you. As it is written in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."

In your prayer request, we didn't notice any mention of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and to pray in His name.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Vorkia and her daughter. Lord, we ask for Your healing hand to be upon their relationship. Soften their hearts, and help them to find forgiveness and reconciliation. Give Vorkia the strength to endure this difficult time, and help her to see her worth in Your eyes. Guide her daughter, that she may find it in her heart to forgive and to show care and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we strongly advise you to seek professional help for your mental health struggles and to continue counseling with your daughter. Trust in God's timing, and remain steadfast in your love and care for her.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Vorkia. We understand the pain you're feeling and we want you to know that we're praying for you and your daughter. It's heartbreaking to see the strain in your relationship, but we believe that with time, patience, and love, healing is possible.

We're grateful that you both have started counseling and are trying to reconnect. It's a significant step towards healing. Remember, forgiveness is a process and it takes time. Keep showing her love and care, even if it's not reciprocated immediately. As it's written in 1 Corinthians 13:7, "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." Keep hoping and believing in the power of love to heal your relationship.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come to you today, lifting up Vorkia and her daughter. Lord, we ask for your healing touch on their relationship. Soften their hearts, Lord. Help them to find forgiveness and reconciliation. Give Vorkia the strength to endure this difficult time, and help her to see her worth in your eyes. Guide her daughter, Lord, that she may find it in her heart to forgive and to show care and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in God's plan, Vorkia. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working things out for your good.

 

[Patiene!]

We are truly saddened to hear about the strained relationship between you and your daughter, Vorkia. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on the principles of God's Word.

Firstly, we want to address the feelings of despair and hopelessness you're experiencing. Taking your own life is not the solution, and it's important to remember that your life is precious in God's sight. As it is written in Psalm 139:14 WEB, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." Suicide is not God's will for your life, and we urge you to seek help from mental health professionals to deal with these feelings.

Regarding your relationship with your daughter, it's encouraging that you both have started counseling and are attempting to reconnect. Healing and forgiveness take time, and it's crucial to be patient and persistent in love. Remember, the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you."

While your daughter's anger and disrespect may be hurting you, try to understand that she might also be processing her own pain. Continue to show her love and care, even if it's not reciprocated immediately. Pray for her, that her heart would be softened and that she would find it in herself to forgive you. As it is written in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."

In your prayer request, we didn't notice any mention of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and to pray in His name.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Vorkia and her daughter. Lord, we ask for Your healing hand to be upon their relationship. Soften their hearts, and help them to find forgiveness and reconciliation. Give Vorkia the strength to endure this difficult time, and help her to see her worth in Your eyes. Guide her daughter, that she may find it in her heart to forgive and to show care and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we strongly advise you to seek professional help for your mental health struggles and to continue counseling with your daughter. Trust in God's timing, and remain steadfast in your love and care for her.

Thank you, we have been done with counseling for awhile now.She puts rules on me that I can't talk about the past, not allowed to talk about my daughter who died recently., not allowed to talk about Judy ( I have never been allowed to call her mom.Her & Brittany are very close like a mother daughter, I am not wanted by either one, she said I'm not good enough to even be a. friend I don't exist to either one.I am mentally ill and have services,I cannot handle this life of pain I'm 60 years old & want to die

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Ramaer]

Please pray for myself & adult daughter.I made horrible decisions lost my parental rights.she continues anger & disrespect and I feel like I'm being paid back for our pain & trauma.I know she doesn't owe me anything, I I only ask that since we reconnected , it hasnt changed anything. Im still afraid of her and the coldness & disrespect that she shows me..I am not my mistakes..I want to end my life over this pain I caused her to hate me,& my mental illness that causes me self hate.Im 60 years old & can't bear the pain

Heavenly Father,
I come to You with a heart weighed down by guilt, regret, and overwhelming pain. Lord, I lift up this mother and her daughter, asking for Your divine intervention in their lives. You are a God of mercy and healing, and I ask that You pour out Your love and grace upon them both.

Father, I ask for healing from the past—the pain, trauma, and brokenness that have caused so much distance and hurt between them. Help them both to see each other with compassion, not as their mistakes, but as beloved children of Yours. Heal the wounds in their relationship, and soften hearts, replacing anger and bitterness with understanding and love.

For this mother, Lord, who is struggling with guilt and self-hate, remind her that she is not defined by her past, nor by her mental illness. Show her that she is deeply loved by You, that her life has purpose, and that You have not abandoned her, even in this season of pain. Give her the strength to keep going, even when it feels unbearable. Let Your peace fill her mind and heart, pushing out thoughts of self-harm or despair.

For her daughter, I pray that You would touch her heart, helping her to process her anger and hurt in a healthy way. Give her the ability to forgive, not for anyone else’s sake, but for her own healing and peace.

Lord, wrap this family in Your love. Bring them back together in ways that only You can, and let them find hope in Your presence.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

 

[Patiene!]

Heavenly Father,
I come to You with a heart weighed down by guilt, regret, and overwhelming pain. Lord, I lift up this mother and her daughter, asking for Your divine intervention in their lives. You are a God of mercy and healing, and I ask that You pour out Your love and grace upon them both.

Father, I ask for healing from the past—the pain, trauma, and brokenness that have caused so much distance and hurt between them. Help them both to see each other with compassion, not as their mistakes, but as beloved children of Yours. Heal the wounds in their relationship, and soften hearts, replacing anger and bitterness with understanding and love.

For this mother, Lord, who is struggling with guilt and self-hate, remind her that she is not defined by her past, nor by her mental illness. Show her that she is deeply loved by You, that her life has purpose, and that You have not abandoned her, even in this season of pain. Give her the strength to keep going, even when it feels unbearable. Let Your peace fill her mind and heart, pushing out thoughts of self-harm or despair.

For her daughter, I pray that You would touch her heart, helping her to process her anger and hurt in a healthy way. Give her the ability to forgive, not for anyone else’s sake, but for her own healing and peace.

Lord, wrap this family in Your love. Bring them back together in ways that only You can, and let them find hope in Your presence.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Thank you so much,

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.