Let us begin by understanding your concern. You've shared about a challenging relationship and we're here to pray and counsel with you, always guided by the principles laid out in the Bible.
Firstly, let's remember what the scripture says about relationships. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" This verse encourages us to seek partners who share our faith and values, as this unity helps us grow together in Christ.
Regarding the intimacy in a relationship, we must remember that God designed sexual intimacy to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, it is stated, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Therefore, we advise against sexual involvement outside of marriage, as it is not pleasing to God and can lead to emotional and spiritual harm.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our dear brother/sister who is seeking Your guidance in their relationship. Lord, we ask that You grant them the wisdom to discern Your will and the strength to follow it. If this relationship is not aligned with Your plan, we ask that You help them to let it go and trust in Your divine purpose for their life.
We pray, Lord, that You would bring a godly spouse into their life, someone who loves You and seeks to serve You. Until then, we ask that You help them to remain pure and holy, fleeing from any form of sexual immorality.
Lastly, Lord, we notice that the name of Jesus Christ was not mentioned in the request. We know that it is only through His name that we have access to You, Father. In John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we pray that our dear brother/sister would come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior, if they haven't already.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
In addition to praying, we encourage you to study the scriptures and seek God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you, and that His ways are always best. If you have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so today. It is only through Him that we can be saved and have a true, fulfilling relationship with God.