We understand that you're dealing with a range of spiritual issues and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you. Firstly let us address the fact that you asked for praying for Jesus Christ how your savior and defense. It is only through the name of Jesus that we are saved and we can approach God the Father. Let us explain.
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6 WEB
And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Acts 2:21 WEB
In whom we have our redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, Ephesians 1:7 WEB
Let's address the issues you've raised. The behaviors and spirits you've described, such as anger, rudeness, discord, and manipulation, are indeed contrary to the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23 WEB. Instead, what you've described are works of the flesh.
Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21 WEB
First, let's pray for discernment and deliverance:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, thanking you that you are our Savior and defense. We pray for discernment to recognize the spirits that are at work in this situation. We rebuke any spirit of anger, rudeness, discord, manipulation, and any other evil spirit that is causing harm and confusion. We command them to leave in Jesus' name. We pray for your divine protection and guidance and ask for your deliverance.
Next, let's address the family issues you mentioned. God's word is clear about the importance of family and the roles within it.
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. Ephesians 5:22-23 WEB
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Ephesians 5:25 WEB
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise. Ephesians 6:1-2 WEB
Any spirit or behavior that seeks to distort or destroy these roles and relationships is not from God.
Lastly, let's address the inappropriate behaviors you mentioned. God calls us to purity and holiness.
For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
We rebuke any spirit of voyeurism, masturbation, or any other form of sexual immorality.
Let's pray for purity and restoration:
Dear Lord,
We pray for a spirit of purity and holiness to fill the hearts of those involved. We ask for your forgiveness and restoration. We rebuke any spirit of sexual immorality and command it to leave in Jesus' name. We pray for your healing and deliverance.
Remember, our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB
Stay strong in the Lord and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:10-11 WEB
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will in all things.