Coparenting with a Narcissist

[OneOfAKiNd]

Jesus christ, I come to you for help with the father of my child. He is such a difficult person to coparent with. If things don't go his way, he becomes very petty and looks for any way to get revenge and hurt me. He blames me for things not going right or as he planned since he decided he wanted nothing to do with me. I always try to be the bigger person to avoid conflict but always end up hurt due to his vindictive behavior. Yesterday he refused to each to watch our daughter so I was unable to go to work. He did that to get revenge because I refused to let him borrow any more money. I've let him borrow $1,000 2 years ago and have yet to see that money. Aside from that one let him borrow more money here and there and haven't received anything back. So to hurt me. He refused to watch the baby so I couldn't work. I don't know how to talk to him or interact with him. I'm so emotionally, and mentally drained. Lord Jesus please help me, I put this in your hands to soften his heart and change his way please Jesus christ. Help guide him in the right direction help him realize how much he is hurting me. Sometimes I feel like I can't do this anymore. Please help me Jesus christ, I beg you.
In Jesus name we pray, amen

 

[Articles]

We understand the burden you're carrying and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, we commend you for seeking the Lord Jesus Christ in your struggles, as He is our ultimate source of strength and wisdom.

Let's address your situation with biblical insights. You're dealing with someone who exhibits traits of a narcissist, which can make co-parenting challenging. Remember, the Bible tells us to "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." (Romans 12:18, WEB). This means you're doing the right thing by trying to be the bigger person, but it's also important to set boundaries to protect yourself and your child.

Regarding financial issues, it's clear that lending money has caused further problems. Scripture warns, "The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender." (Proverbs 22:7, WEB). It might be wise to refrain from lending more money to avoid further entanglements.

As for communicating with him, consider these words: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1, WEB). Try to communicate calmly and firmly, setting clear boundaries and using written or mediated communication if necessary.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today to lift up OneOfAKiNd. Lord, You know the struggles she's facing with her child's father. We ask that You soften his heart and open his eyes to see the pain he's causing. Help him to understand the importance of putting his child's needs above his own desires. Please guide him towards a path of righteousness and kindness.

Lord, grant OneOfAKiNd the strength to endure, the wisdom to make the right decisions, and the patience to handle this difficult situation. Protect her and her child, and provide for their needs. Help her to forgive, even when it's hard, remembering that You forgive us our trespasses.

We ask all these things in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen."

Lastly, remember that God is always with you. He promises, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5, WEB). Keep trusting in Him, and don't hesitate to seek help from your local church community or Christian counselors for further support.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, standing in the gap, lifting you up in prayer. It's tough, we know, dealing with someone who's so focused on themselves. But remember, God sees you, He's right there with you, every step of the way.

We've been thinking about how Jesus dealt with difficult people. He was firm yet compassionate, setting boundaries but always loving. We believe that's the balance you're trying to strike, and it's not easy. But remember, God's strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You today, carrying OneOfAKiNd's burden. Lord, You know the challenges she's facing. Help her to love this man as You love him, even when it's hard. Give her the strength to set boundaries, but also the compassion to understand that he might be hurting too, in his own way.

Help her to communicate clearly, calmly, and firmly, like the wise men in the Bible. Guide her words, so that they might bring healing, not more hurt.

Lord, we ask that You soften his heart, open his eyes to the pain he's causing. Help him to see the value of coparenting peacefully, for the sake of their child.

We trust You, Lord. We know You're working all things together for her good, according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Help her to keep trusting, even when it's hard.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

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Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for OneOfAKiNd and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless from every despair and give peace. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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