Contemplating Divorce

[Thairia]

Heavenly Father I humbly ask that you open my wife’s eyes to the truth of what is going on. Being ruled by these lies and gossip is not how we are supposed to live. I’m tired of arguing about defending myself my beliefs my truth. If God wants me to be single help me to accept this. Thank you Lord. In the Mighty name of Jesus amen.

 

[Articles]

Thank you Thairia, for reaching out and sharing your heartfelt concerns with us. We appreciate your faith to ask in Jesus Mighty Name. As described in the Lord's Prayer in Matthew 6:9-13, it is important to not only hallow or honor the Name of God, Lord, or Father, but must only approach God by the name of Jesus Christ or Jesus or Christ or a commonly understood abbreviation, IJN. For instance, in (John 14:6 KJV) 'Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.' Furthermore, it is important to remember the basic salvation message of (Romans 3:23 KJV) ' For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.' and in (Romans 6:23 KJV) 'For the wages of sin is death: but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.' (Romans 5:8 KJV) 'But God commendeth his love towards us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.' Please tell everyone you know this, because no one can be saved without this knowledge.

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and you must apply the wisdom in (James 1: 2-8,12). It is important to remember the sanctity of marriage, as described in (Matthew 19:4-6 WEB) 'He answered, "Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall join to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?' So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, do not let man tear apart."'

Divorce is not God's desire, as (Malachi 2:16 WEB) says, "'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and do not be unfaithful.'" It is important to know why (Matthew 5:32 WEB) says, 'but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.'

We encourage you to pray for your wife and your marriage, seeking God's will and redemption. As it says in (Mark 10:9 WEB) 'What therefore God has joined together, let no man tear apart.'' Remember this and have faith in it. If it was really a Godly marriage, this both makes your marriage a part of God's plan and an agreement with God and not just man. Take it seriously. It is also important to love your wife with more than human love, but rather an agape love of God's love. Property and money should not be a higher priority than a marriage as a marriage is also an agreement with God. Do not stand in the temple and make your request to God and then go home to break your marriage and God's marriage for property, money, threats, emotions, children, or feelings. Unless, the marriage has adultery or fornication associated with it, that agreement with God may not be broken because of the hardness of your heart and because you disagree. (Matthew 19:8 WEB) says, 'He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so.'

We also must stress that, If your marriage is not blessed by God, is only a relationship that you refer to as a marriage but is not a marriage blessed by God, is not an agreement with God, is not a marriage between a man and a woman, but is a relationship between 2 individuals that is not between a man and a woman, or is something other than a marriage blessed by God, that these statements do not apply to your situation. We also ask that you pray this prayer daily and believe in faith this statement to be true from Matthew 21:22, 'All things, whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.' But if you only doubt, these things will not happen.

Please know that we care about what you are going through and will pray for wisdom for you and that you continue to grow in the knowledge of Jesus Christ Jesus Christ will bless and help you to forgive, renew, and see you and your spouse as he does, new creatures. Restoration is still possible, and God can turn even the most difficult situations around for His glory.

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before you, lifting up to you our brother Thairia. We pray that his wife has his love and that they have what he describes, but in addition, that they have agape love of God and that their marriage is a marriage made by God as an agreed promise of him and his wife that should be kept. Lord, we ask that you open her eyes to the truth and that you protect their marriage from the schemes of the enemy. We know that heart change and conviction come from your Holy Spirit, so we ask for your intervention in Jesus' name. If divorce is truly needed due to adultery or fornication, then please grant mercy, grace, healing, restoration, and understanding to them. If there is constantly arguing that has to do with things of this world as in (Matthew 6:14 WEB) 'For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.' and in (Matthew 6:25-34 WEB) that all the things that are needed will be provided for us as individuals and as a couple. Things that are a part of chasing worldly desires is not as important as a marriage. Help Thairia to stand on your promises, and if he has wronged you, forgive him. Help him to seek your will in Jesus name. Let his faith be strengthened, and let him find peace and wisdom guided by Godly understanding and the word of God. We ask that Thairia will see evidence of your restoration power and of your glory, as this is a promise to your children that you will provide for them. If it is truly your will that Thairia be single, help him to accept that and to find joy and purpose in his singleness for your glory and in Jesus' name. Nevertheless, not our will, but your will be done in their life. This we pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

We encourage you to remain firm in prayer. If your marriage is or is made of God, remain firm in faith and that you support your marriage rather than tear it apart. As further educated and trained up by Thairia, and with the hope to help those with such prayer requests, we ask that he also list those things that are discussed and to return here and comment, ask questions, or to provide an update on what happens. We ask that you return to us again for prayer and guidance in this community. Stay strong in the faith and allow God to show himself strong, working out your situation. Jesus Christ will bless and help you to forgive, renew, and see you and your spouse as he does, new creatures.

 

[Good faith]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Thairia,

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we wanted to reach out with some more encouragement and prayer. We know that it's tough when you feel like you're not being heard, and it's easy to get tired of arguing about things that seem so important to you. But remember, God sees you, He hears you, and He's right there with you.

We want to encourage you to keep praying, keep seeking God's will, and trust that He's working things out in His timing. In the meantime, try to focus on the things you can control - like your own heart and actions. As it says in Proverbs 4:23, "Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." It's important to guard your heart, especially in difficult times.

We also want to remind you that God is a God of restoration and redemption. Even if things don't turn out the way you hope, God can bring beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Trust in Him, and know that He's got a plan for you, no matter what happens.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today on behalf of Thairia and his wife. We ask that you open her eyes to the truth, and soften her heart. We pray for unity and understanding between them, and for your agape love to fill their marriage. We ask that you protect their marriage from the schemes of the enemy, and that you give them the strength to stand firm in their commitment to each other. We trust in your will, and we know that you are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Please keep us updated on how things are going, and remember, you're not alone in this. We're here for you, and so is God. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face.

With love and prayers,
[Your Name]

 

[Nyrwaynn]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Thairia]

Thank you Thairia, for reaching out and sharing your heartfelt concerns with us. We appreciate your faith to ask in Jesus Mighty Name. As described in the Lord's Prayer in Matthew 6:9-13, it is important to not only hallow or honor the Name of God, Lord, or Father, but must only approach God by the name of Jesus Christ or Jesus or Christ or a commonly understood abbreviation, IJN. For instance, in (John 14:6 KJV) 'Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.' Furthermore, it is important to remember the basic salvation message of (Romans 3:23 KJV) ' For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.' and in (Romans 6:23 KJV) 'For the wages of sin is death: but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.' (Romans 5:8 KJV) 'But God commendeth his love towards us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.' Please tell everyone you know this, because no one can be saved without this knowledge.

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and you must apply the wisdom in (James 1: 2-8,12). It is important to remember the sanctity of marriage, as described in (Matthew 19:4-6 WEB) 'He answered, "Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall join to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?' So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, do not let man tear apart."'

Divorce is not God's desire, as (Malachi 2:16 WEB) says, "'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and do not be unfaithful.'" It is important to know why (Matthew 5:32 WEB) says, 'but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.'

We encourage you to pray for your wife and your marriage, seeking God's will and redemption. As it says in (Mark 10:9 WEB) 'What therefore God has joined together, let no man tear apart.'' Remember this and have faith in it. If it was really a Godly marriage, this both makes your marriage a part of God's plan and an agreement with God and not just man. Take it seriously. It is also important to love your wife with more than human love, but rather an agape love of God's love. Property and money should not be a higher priority than a marriage as a marriage is also an agreement with God. Do not stand in the temple and make your request to God and then go home to break your marriage and God's marriage for property, money, threats, emotions, children, or feelings. Unless, the marriage has adultery or fornication associated with it, that agreement with God may not be broken because of the hardness of your heart and because you disagree. (Matthew 19:8 WEB) says, 'He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so.'

We also must stress that, If your marriage is not blessed by God, is only a relationship that you refer to as a marriage but is not a marriage blessed by God, is not an agreement with God, is not a marriage between a man and a woman, but is a relationship between 2 individuals that is not between a man and a woman, or is something other than a marriage blessed by God, that these statements do not apply to your situation. We also ask that you pray this prayer daily and believe in faith this statement to be true from Matthew 21:22, 'All things, whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.' But if you only doubt, these things will not happen.

Please know that we care about what you are going through and will pray for wisdom for you and that you continue to grow in the knowledge of Jesus Christ Jesus Christ will bless and help you to forgive, renew, and see you and your spouse as he does, new creatures. Restoration is still possible, and God can turn even the most difficult situations around for His glory.

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before you, lifting up to you our brother Thairia. We pray that his wife has his love and that they have what he describes, but in addition, that they have agape love of God and that their marriage is a marriage made by God as an agreed promise of him and his wife that should be kept. Lord, we ask that you open her eyes to the truth and that you protect their marriage from the schemes of the enemy. We know that heart change and conviction come from your Holy Spirit, so we ask for your intervention in Jesus' name. If divorce is truly needed due to adultery or fornication, then please grant mercy, grace, healing, restoration, and understanding to them. If there is constantly arguing that has to do with things of this world as in (Matthew 6:14 WEB) 'For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.' and in (Matthew 6:25-34 WEB) that all the things that are needed will be provided for us as individuals and as a couple. Things that are a part of chasing worldly desires is not as important as a marriage. Help Thairia to stand on your promises, and if he has wronged you, forgive him. Help him to seek your will in Jesus name. Let his faith be strengthened, and let him find peace and wisdom guided by Godly understanding and the word of God. We ask that Thairia will see evidence of your restoration power and of your glory, as this is a promise to your children that you will provide for them. If it is truly your will that Thairia be single, help him to accept that and to find joy and purpose in his singleness for your glory and in Jesus' name. Nevertheless, not our will, but your will be done in their life. This we pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

We encourage you to remain firm in prayer. If your marriage is or is made of God, remain firm in faith and that you support your marriage rather than tear it apart. As further educated and trained up by Thairia, and with the hope to help those with such prayer requests, we ask that he also list those things that are discussed and to return here and comment, ask questions, or to provide an update on what happens. We ask that you return to us again for prayer and guidance in this community. Stay strong in the faith and allow God to show himself strong, working out your situation. Jesus Christ will bless and help you to forgive, renew, and see you and your spouse as he does, new creatures.

I slept on it and I’ve coming to the conclusion that I will see my wife on her lunch break and ask if she wants me to go forward with filing for divorce. If she says yes , which she is the one who said that it’s what she wanted…I will go forward with filing a motion to see my 7 children that she is preventing me from seeing all because she thinks I’m with every woman that comes to her mind or someone mysteriously tells her. I’m 53 I believe in the Lord I married to have one wife not multiple relationships I know how Jesus feels about marriage that’s why I’m not trying to divorce her . I couldn’t take the arguments and disrespect threats to call the police alm cuz I don’t agree with what’s being said about me. Pray for me! I really think I love someone that doesn’t love me !!

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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