We are glad to join with you in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles. We understand that you are seeking a good job, a blessed marriage with Gabby, and wisdom to lead your relationship and future family. Let's address these requests one by one.
Firstly, we commend you for asking in Jesus' name, as He Himself told us, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." John 14:13-14 WEB.
Regarding your job request, we pray that God will open the right doors for you. Remember that God wants to prosper you, but He also wants you to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 WEB.
Now, concerning your relationship with Gabby, we must address a few things. It is clear that you desire to marry her and build a future together, which is commendable. However, it is crucial to ensure that your relationship is built on biblical principles. We must be alert concerning sexual purity, making sure that the marriage bed is undefiled Hebrews 13.4. Also, rebuke visits to her bedroom or her to your residence until married to avoid fornication. We praise you for using the word "Marry" instead of "PARTNER". Continue to ensure the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Matthew 1:23-25,Matthew 19:4-5,Mark 10:6-9, Luke 3.23-38. We suggest you pursue and encourage Gabby to pursue a spirit filled Christian lifestyle together and in community. The way of Christ has become perverted in this current society and many believe being a Christian is sitting in the pew on Sunday morning and nothing more but this is not scriptural. We have all been commanded to be holy as Christ is Holy. Look deeper into this before and while pursuing marriage 1 Peter 1:16. "Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner: but be partaker of the afflictions of the gospel according to the power of God;" 2 Timothy 1:8. Also, ensure that Gabby is a fellow believer in Jesus Christ, as the Scripture warns, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. Give thoughtful consideration to what a Godly marriage entails and how the world may influence your beliefs and the potential beliefs of your spouse and children. Give deep thought as to how you will raise your children with a Godly upbringing given the current state of morality and behavior in this world Ephesians 6:4,Deuteronomy 11:19. This is not something to glibly approach. This must be a very serious consideration and all paths that could be crossed must be considered for the salvation of you, your wife, and your children. Following Christ is not an easy endeavor, it is often lonely, taxing, and ostracizing.
We join you in praying for wisdom to lead your relationship and future family:
"Father in heaven, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your will to be done in Nyfarle's life. Please guide him to a job that is financially secure, happy, stable, and dignified, allowing time for family, prayer, and You. Help him to be a wise and safe driver. Bless his relationship with Gabby, and if it is Your will, let their marriage be a blessing to both families. Let their eyes be always on heaven, and may their family be a testament to Your love and faithfulness. If there are areas where they need to align more closely with Your word help them to discern this and build a strong Godly relationship. We ask for this by the name of Jesus the Christ because we have no other way to come before you Father Romans 5:2, John 15:16, Ephesians 3:12. We ask that if either of these individuals are not saved to reveal salvation of Jesus Christ to them and to either save them or expose the trueness of their faith. Also, Father we ask that you help Nyfarle and Gabby to discern the True Gospel of Jesus from any false gospels that have been slowly sewn into the Truth of Jesus Christ such as the Social Justice Gospel, Emergent Gospel, Feminist Gospel, Progressive Christianity Gospel, Gay Christianity Gospel, Racial Justice Gospel, Liberation Theology Gospel, Prosperity Gospel, or the Critical Race Gospel to name a few Galatians 1:8. In the name above all names Jesus the Christ we pray these things. Amen."
Continue to entrust Gabby's care and safety to God, and pray for His blessing and guidance in your relationship. Be the “SAINT JOSEPH” who lead and provided for his family. But also be very aware that society has turned and denounced Christianity and that following Jesus Christ is not a popular thing to do. Be prepared to pay a price for following Jesus 2 Timothy 3:12. "Be faithful unto death". Jesus will have prepared for us a Crown of Life Revelations 2:10.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of being equally yoked in a marriage. Ensure that both of you are believers in Jesus Christ and are committed to following His teachings. If an individual believes in Jesus Christ but is not following His teachings sometimes they truly aren't believers however there is also a False Conversion that could be at play which is very prevalent in Christianity today Matthew 7:21-23. If either or both of you are not saved you must repent and turn towards Jesus Christ and ask Him to be King over your life aka Lord and Savior. This is the absolutely necessary first step before considering marriage whether in cohabitation or courting sometime called boyfriend/girlfriend or courtship. Discern this for yourself and your potential spouse. This is not a small thing we would say this is the most important thing in your life and must be the most important thing in your life Acts 4:12. The marriage relationship should be used by God to bring glory to Jesus Christ among others and not for one's own pleasure or ambition or greed. Ensure the success of your marriage by approaching God as your primary relationship through the guidance of His son Jesus Christ and the Word aka the Bible. Create a circle of friends or mentors that will follow the biblical principles of marriage. Protect your relationships from those that do not follow properly the tenets laid forth by the guidelines of the Bible this could be your friends, family, associates, or any others you meet day to day or in institutions such as a church or another religious institution or gathering. Do not be afraid to separate from those that do not align with the biblical principles regardless of who they are 2 Corinthians 6:17. Continue to seek God's will in all areas of your life, and He will direct your paths.