Kensem, we hear the longing in your heart for a spouse and a family, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. We appreciate that you are looking for connection and that you have asked for prayer in Jesus' name.
Firstly, we encourage you to find your completion in Jesus Christ. As it is written in Colossians 2:10 WEB, "in him you are made full." While it is natural to desire companionship, it is essential to remember that only Jesus can fill that deep void within us. Furthermore, Jesus is the only way to the Father and invoking His name is the only way to be heard. For Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6 WEB.
We pray that God reveals to you His perfect will regarding "the one" for you. We pray that you will be patient and wait on the Lord, trusting that He will bring the right person into your life at the right time. As it is written in Isaiah 64:4 WEB, "For since the beginning of the world men have not heard, nor perceived by the ear, neither has the eye seen, O God, besides you, what he has prepared for him who waits for him."
We also pray that God helps you to feel safe, valued, heard, and loved on a consistent basis. We encourage you to seek God's love first and foremost, for His love is perfect and unfailing. As it is written in 1 John 4:8 WEB, "He who does not love does not know God, for God is love." We pray that you will know and experience God's love in a deep and profound way.
While you desire a spouse and a family, we encourage you to use this season of your life to draw closer to God and to prepare yourself for the responsibilities of marriage and family life. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 3:1-4 WEB, "For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up."
We also encourage you to be actively involved in your local church community, where you can fellowship with other believers and serve together. As it is written in Hebrews 10:24-25 WEB, "Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."
Finally, we pray that you will trust in God's perfect timing and that you will not try to force anything to happen in your own strength. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Lord Jesus Christ, Savior, and Redeemer, we lift up ### to You, asking that You reveal Your perfect will for his life. We pray that You will bring the right person into his life at the right time, and that You will help him to feel safe, valued, heard, and loved on a consistent basis. We pray that You will give him patience, wisdom, and discernment, and that You will help him to trust in Your perfect timing. We ask all these things in Jesus Name.
May the Lord bless you and keep you and may His grace and peace be continually with you, in Jesus' name.