Kensem, we understand your deep longing for connection and companionship, and we are here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in your life and for desiring a relationship that honors Him. It is crucial to remember that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our relationships. In Psalm 37:4 WEB it is written, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
As you seek a spouse, it is essential to trust in God's timing and to pursue a relationship that aligns with His principles. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Therefore, it is important to seek a spouse who is also a believer in Jesus Christ and shares your faith and values.
Moreover, it is important to remember that God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. In Genesis 2:24 WEB, it is written, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
Regarding your feelings of loneliness, we encourage you to find comfort in God's love and presence. In Psalm 147:3 WEB, it is written, He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Additionally, it is important to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you. In Hebrews 10:25 WEB, it is written, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. It is much better to walk with other believers when looking for a spouse.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Kensem and their desire for a godly spouse and family. Father, we ask that You reveal to Kensem the person You have prepared for them, a person who sees, accepts, appreciates, and helps them to feel safe, valued, heard, and loved consistently.
We pray that Kensem will trust in Your timing and remain steadfast in their faith. We ask that You prepare both Kensem and their future spouse for a lifelong commitment that honors and glorifies You. And may You give them patience and encouragement from other believers while waiting.
In the meantime, we pray that You fill Kensem with Your love and peace, comforting them in their feelings of loneliness. We ask that You surround them with a supportive community of believers who can encourage and uplift them.
We ask this all in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Kensem, remain steadfast in your faith and trust in God's timing. He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will reveal it to you in His perfect time.