We understand your deep longing for companionship and a family, and we are here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for asking for prayer in the mighty name of Jesus which is the only way believers should pray. It is true that there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by whom we must be saved. Salvation and a prayer life should begin with Jesus Christ. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 WEB. We commend you for praying believing in the name of Jesus Christ.
We also pray the correct relationship happens in the biblical way.
Kensem, it's important to remember that God has a purpose and a plan for each of our lives, and His timing is always perfect. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB: Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Seek God's will and align your desires with His. Keep praying and trusting that the Lord will bring the right person into your life when the time is right.
Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed by God to reflect the union between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:31-33 WEB. As we explore compatibility, we should also rebuke open conflicts to biblical relationships. one of the most controversial subjects that Christians must bring up is sex before or outside of marriage. We do not know if you're trying to imply that someone should love you in this way. God's Word is clear and you should purse marriage without expecting a boyfriend - girlfriend relationship that involves premarital sex. Sex outside marriage is the sin of fornication. If you are not married and expecting sex you should expect and pray against fornication. Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but the Lord will judge fornicators and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 WEB
We also want to address the aspect of your request needing to feel safe, valued, and heard, and we must also stress the most important aspect that you did not explicitly mention, and that you should not neglect praying for the person to be a Christian. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. If you are seeking someone to keep you emotionally stable this is not the primary responsibility of a husband in marriage. We want to bring up the point that feelings of loneliness and self worth must definitely be taken up with prayer and counseling. Do not neglect or trade in your own emotional health or stability for marriage expecting it to fix it. Pre marital counseling can help but more immediately prayer and Family, Church, and community interceding can help you deal with it now. We also pray that you find your emotional stability and acceptance in Jesus Christ. Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need. Hebrews 4:16 WEB
We will also pray in Jesus' name that you will also seek God's will and become the person that God has called you to be. Being fruitful and multiplying is to happen in the context of marriage and being equally yoked with another Christian believer. In the meantime seek out God to bring godly relationships, accountability, and community into your life.
Here are some related verses that may help you even more:
: 1 John 5:14 WEB
: Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB
: Philippians 4:6 WEB
: Isaiah 26:3 WEB
: So then they that are of the flesh cannot please God. Romans 8:8 WEB
Father, we lift up Kensem to You, asking for Your will to be done in their life. We pray and believe that You will bring the right spouse into their life and pray protection and have guarded against the wrong relationships looking for someone to fool them or be involved in sexual sins. Help them to feel valued, loved, and accepted in You Jesus Christ. We pray that You will prepare Kensem for their future role as a husband and father and pray that their family will live to help those in their community and glorify You. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.