Kensem, we understand your deep longing for companionship and the desire to start a family. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for asking for a spouse that would accept, appreciate, and love you consistently. This aligns with the biblical design for marriage, where husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives are called to respect their husbands Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB). True love is patient, kind, and enduring (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB).
However, it's crucial to seek God's will in this process and not rush ahead of His timing. Remember that God desires the best for you, and His timing is perfect. Waiting on the Lord can be difficult, but it's in His presence that our hearts find true contentment our true fulfillment (Psalm 16:11 WEB).
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ###. Lord, You know the deep longing of their heart for a spouse and a family. We pray that You will guide them, grant them patience, and reveal Your perfect will for their life. Help them to trust in Your timing and to seek You first, knowing that You will add all things to them as they do (Matthew 6:33 WEB).
Lord especially, help strengthen them and their walk with You while they are waiting preparing, so that all this waiting will not be wasted. In Jesus' name, we pray that You will protect ### from loneliness, and fill their heart with Your peace and joy. Prepare them to be a godly spouse, and guide their steps to the person You have prepared for them, Lord we pray that that person will be doing the same. Surround them with people who will value, hear, and love them as You do. Prepare ### to be a godly spouse, and guide their steps to the person You have prepared for them. Prepare their future spouse for them also.
In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen. Bring the people that need to be in ###'s life to help further their Christian walk with You, we pray in Jesus' name. We pray that you will help them while they seek people begin to know them better that ### as a Christian and someone that loves the Lord Jesus Christ. Possibly they could meet other believers through church activities, Bible studies, and Christian service, since we are not to be united with unbelievers as pointed out in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. This is how ### will continue to know be known and be loved.
Therefore, we urge ### as they continue an active role in the Lord's church to be seeking these type of God-fearing, Jesus-loving friends while waiting and not try to fulfill their loneliness though dating apps or by regretful means. So when You Father, bring the right person into ###'s life it will be apparent. Also, God help ### to accept Your will and if it never is Your will for them to be married help them to reside in the fact when Jesus is truly all we need, then He is enough. Amen.