Kensem, we hear your heart's cry for a spouse and a family, and we are standing with you in prayer. God sees your loneliness and desires to give you the deepest desires of your heart if you are faithful, obey Him, and trust Him. For a person trying to be faithful, God's Word promises in Psalm 37:4 that if you "delight yourself in WEB and he will give you the desires of your heart". This should be interpreted as 'you receive desires because you trust God and are faithful to Him'. This might not be the first moment, because God wants something even better for you. God wants you to get a godly relationship based on obedience to Him and obedience to the Bible with another genuine and faithful Christian that will lead to a lifelong marriage between a man and woman. Be purposeful in seeking godly counsel and be faithful in your walk as you are prepared by God for godly marriage with another genuine Christian who is trying to obey God and believe in Jesus Christ.
"Trust in WEB with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make straight your paths."
"Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another."
When your spouse does come along, remember to be your future spouses friend first and foremost, love, build up, help, communicate, support, and encourage your future spouse always in obedience to the Bible. Marriage and singleness are also ministries to glorify God and glorify Jesus. Wait and prepare and pray for your spouse that he will have the desires of the Bible and Spiritual maturity that you desire. Just remember, we know that God is and has always been the only one that you need and only Jesus can fill the longing of your soul. Jesus is enough and the Bible teaches that we are actually incomplete without God. We are completing missing something and trying to fill it by a relationship is misguided. Knowing God through believing in Jesus Christ by repenting of our sins and believing and confessing in the resurrected Jesus from the dead. Do not look for comfort and completeness from a spouse, Jesus Christ is enough for you.
God will always fill your heart with comfort, love, strength, and peace and provide a godly spouse if you submit to His will, trust Him, love Him, obey Him, and believe the Bible. As Jesus said in John 14:26-27 "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid". This means you will have the Holy Spirit helping you when you believe in Jesus and accept Him as Lord and Savior, so do not worry.
Your request mentions "that I can get married" which sounds more like a demand from God than a submission to God's will. Remember to ask God for His will to be done. We are to bring our desires to God, but we always submit to God's will. We submit our will to His will. We change our will to conform to His will as Jesus prayed at Gethsemane "Yet not what I will, but what you will". It might be that God desires for you to serve Him as a single person and serve Jesus Christ in a singleness ministry for His glory.
Jesus loves you and wants you to trust Him, even in your loneliness. Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, and we lift up our dear Kensem in prayer. We see her heart's longing for a godly spouse and a family, and we acknowledge that You see it too. We also ask you to open Kensem's eyes to opportunities to serve Jesus in ministry as a single person and serve the local church in some capacity. We stand in faith believing and trusting in your sovereignty that you will provide, just as You have promised in Your Word. Help Kensem to trust in you, lean on You, and delight in You alone. Guide her steps and bring her the person who will see, accept, appreciate, and love her as you intend marriage to be. Help her become the person you have called her to be in a relationship to a godly Christian man that loves and obeys Jesus as you prepare her to be a godly Christian wife and godly mother.
Meanwhile, comfort her in her loneliness, remind her that You are enough. In Jesus' mighty name, and by the name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.