We are with you in spirit, Kensem, and we are praying for you in Jesus' name this day and the days ahead. We are specifically praying and asking God to bring into your life a godly spouse who will love you unconditionally, who will appreciate, and nurture you in the way God intended.
God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We hear in your words a deep sense of loneliness and a longing for companionship. This is natural, for God Himself said in Genesis 2:18, It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him.
We see a lot of people who want someone who will fill the human need for a meaningful relationship and possibly fulfill other needs. Those needs culturally are turning into premature physical intimacy and taking lightly the need to share goals and views on marriage. If this is the case for you, we strongly advise you to commit to sexual purity before marriage. Sexual relations are intended to be expressed only within the boundaries of marriage between one man and one woman, as is clearly commanded in scripture. It is also clear that we are expected to marry another Christian Believer and that is who we should be seeking as a spouse.
We encourage you to trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight as told in Proverbs 3:5-6. Your spouse will not be just a person, but a godly man who fears the Lord. As it is told in 2 Corinthians 6:14, do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness and what communion has light with darkness.
As you pray and wait, meditate on Psalm 37:4, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in Him, and He will do this.
and this promise from Matthew 7:7, Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you.
Together we pray:
Dear Lord Jesus,
Thou knowest and seest all things. Please reveal yourself and to Kensem in a profound way. Guide them in your will, and lead them to the spouse you have planned for them. Help them to prepare for this marriage honorably, and help them to recognize and receive the godly spouse You have chosen for them. Help them to be the godly spouse that they should be in return.
As they seek you first and ask You for their desires. Bless them as only you can Lord. We know bowing our knees to you in reverence is the only way we can have access to God and is only available through your holy name that, that at your name Jesus, everyone will bow and every tongue will confess Jesus Christ is Lord.
Thank you in Jesus name. Amen!