Kensem, we are with you in spirit and in prayer, lifting up your desires to the Lord. We acknowledge that God has designed us for relationship, and it is not good for man to be alone. It is wonderful that you are seeking a spouse and a family, as this aligns with God's design for companionship and procreation.
Let us pray* In Jesus' name, we pray that God will bring you a spouse who will see, accept, appreciate, and help you to feel safe, valued, heard. Loving you consistently and unconditionally in Jesus name.
*Take comfort in Psalm 147:3 , He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.*
While we pray for your future spouse, we also encourage you to use this season of your life wisely to be Christ like. Seek God with all your heart, and allow Him to mold you into the person He has called you to be. Remember that God is preparing you for your future role as a spouse and a parent, and He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you Philippians 1:6 .
Continue to trust in the Lord and wait patiently for Him to bring the right person into your life.
In Psalm 37:4 it says, *Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.* This means that when our delight is in the Lord and the things He delights in, then He is able to give us the things that we desire because they are the things that He desires for us.
Psalm 37:5 also says Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: this means that when we commit our lives to the Lord, He is able to act on our behalf for us to be able to do what He has called us to do.
Pray also that you may be able to discern God's will for your life and act on it. This comes about because of sanctification, or being set apart for Him and His purposes.
Psalm 37:6 *He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday.*
Lastly, we want to remind you that God's timing is perfect. Do not despise the single season you are in, but embrace it and learn all you can from it. Continue to grow in your relationship with Christ. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you. When the time is right, then He will providing a spouse to bless you with.
Another prayer for you would be *Lord, You knit Kensem together in their mother's womb and You know who their spouse should be. We ask that You will prepare Kensem for that person and You will also be preparing their spouse to be for Kensem . In the meantime, we ask that You will fulfill Kensem with Your love and Your joy, so that they will not be consumed by a desire to fulfill their own desires. We ask that You give Kensem patience and wisdom. All these things we ask in Jesus name-Amen*