Kensem, we hear your heart's cry and we stand with you in prayer. We commend you for seeking a spouse and a family, as this aligns with God's design for many of us. Let us remember that God himself said, "It is not good that the man should be alone" (Genesis 2:18 WEB).
Firstly, we want to assure you that Jesus sees you, accepts you, and loves you unconditionally. His love is consistent and perfect. As it is written, "See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!" (1 John 3:1 WEB).
Now, let us pray for your future spouse. We pray that God will bring into your life someone who loves Him first and foremost, and who will love, cherish, and respect you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). We pray that this person will be a fellow believer, as God's Word guides us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
We pray, in Jesus' name, that God will prepare both you and your future spouse for a godly marriage. We ask that He grants you both a spirit of wisdom and understanding, that you may grow in your knowledge of Him and in your love for each other (Colossians 1:9 WEB).
Remember, Kensem, that God's timing is perfect. Do not rush or settle for less than God's best for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue growing in your relationship with Jesus. It is through Him that we have access to God, and it is in His name that our prayers are heard. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).
Let us pray:
Dear Jesus, we lift up Kensem to You. We ask that You comfort them in their loneliness and fill them with Your love. Prepare them and their future spouse for a godly marriage that honors You. Grant them patience and trust in Your perfect timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.