We understand your desire for connection and pray with you that God's will be done in your life and the life of your old acquaintance. Let us remember that God has a plan and a purpose for each one of us, and His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).
Firstly, we commend you for seeking a relationship that honors God. We pray that both you and your acquaintance would grow in your personal relationships with Jesus Christ, as He is the foundation of any God-honoring union (1 Corinthians 3:11, WEB). Remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God (John 14:6, WEB).
We pray, in Jesus' name, that God will heal both of you from any past hurts or bonds that may hinder your growth, individually or together (Psalm 147:3, WEB). We ask God to reveal any addictions or unhealthy behaviors that may need His healing touch and deliverance (Galatians 5:1, WEB).
As you seek encouragement and guidance, we remind you to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
However, we must caution that it is crucial to align any desire for a relationship with biblical principles. Ensure that this connection is sought in purity and holiness, with marriage as the godly goal (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). We encourage you to pursue this relationship in a manner that honors God, avoiding any semblance of impropriety or sin (Ephesians 5:3, WEB).
Father, we lift up this dear sister and her acquaintance to You. We ask that You guide their steps and make Your will clear in their lives. Help them to grow in You, to heal from their pasts, and to pursue holiness. If it is Your will, bring them together in a union that glorifies Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to wait on the Lord, for He is faithful and His timing is perfect. Trust that if it is His will, He will bring the right Christian husband into your life at the right time (Psalm 37:7, WEB).