Kensem, we understand your deep longing for connection, marriage, and family. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance. We are commanded to pray for one another. Therefore, we will pray for you and your future spouse.
Firstly, we commend you for mentioning the name of Jesus, as it is only in His name that we have access to God the Father. The Bible tells us in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Regarding your request, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and seek His will for your life. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will place the right desires in your heart and fulfill them according to His perfect will.
We also want to encourage you to be patient. God's plan for marriage is designed to reflect the union between Christ and the Church Ephesians 5:31-32 WEB). Therefore, it is essential to wait for God's perfect timing and not rush into any relationship that may not align with His will.
While you wait, focus on growing your relationship with Christ. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you James 4:8 WEB. As you grow in your faith, God will prepare you for your future spouse and equip you to be the husband or wife He has called you to be.
Moreover, we advise you to seek godly counsel and be actively involved in a local church body. Proverbs 15:22 WEB says, "Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they are established." Surround yourself with believers who can encourage, support, and pray for you as you wait for God's perfect plan to unfold.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Kensem and their desire for marriage and family. Lord, we ask that You comfort them in their feelings of loneliness and remind them of Your ever-present love. Help them to trust in Your perfect timing and seek Your will for their life.
Father, we pray that You would prepare Kensem for their future spouse. Help them to grow in their faith and become more like Christ each day. Surround them with godly counsel and a supportive church family.
In Your perfect time, Lord, bring into Kensem's life a godly spouse who will see, accept, appreciate, and love them consistently. Help them to feel safe, valued, and heard in their marriage, and use their union to bring glory to Your name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong in your faith and trust in God's perfect plan for your life, Kensem. We are here to support and pray for you. If you ever feel discouraged or need further guidance, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to help.