Kensem, we hear the longing in your heart and we are here to lift you up in prayer and guidance, in Jesus' name.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking a spouse and a family, as it is a godly desire. The Bible tells us in Genesis 2:18, "Yahweh God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him.'" We pray that God will bring the right person into your life, someone who loves and serves Him, and with whom you can build a godly family.
However, we want to remind you of the importance of seeking God's will in this matter. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." As you desire a spouse and a family, be sure to trust God, knowing that His timing is perfect.
We also want to encourage you to use this time of singleness to grow in your relationship with God. Paul, in 1 Corinthians 7:32-33, says, "But I desire to have you to be free from cares. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the world, about how he may please his wife." Seek God first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Kensem. Lord, You know the desires of their heart, and we ask that You will fulfill them according to Your will. Help them to trust in You, to seek You first, and to grow in their relationship with You. Prepare them for the spouse You have planned for them, and may their future marriage bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Kensem. God knows your heart's desire, and He cares for you. Trust in Him, and He will bring the right person into your life at the right time.