Kensem, we hear your cry for connection and understand your desire for marriage and a family. Let us come before God together and seek His will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for including the name of Jesus in your request, as it is through His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).
God has created us for relationship, and it's natural to feel lonely when we don't have a companion. In Genesis 2:18, WEB, God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone." However, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and seek His face as you navigate this season of life.
In Proverbs 18:22, WEB, it says, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." Marriage is indeed a blessing from God, but we must also ensure that we are pursuing it in a way that honors Him. As you await your future spouse, continue to prepare your heart and seek God's will for your life.
We also encourage you to be actively involved in Christian community, where you can build godly friendships and grow spiritually. Remember, God's love for you is unfailing, and He is always with you. In Psalm 68:6, WEB, God says, "God sets the lonely in families." Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Kensem. Lord, You know the deepest desires of his heart, and You see his loneliness. We ask that You comfort him and remind him of Your unfailing love. Prepare his heart for the spouse You have for him, and give him the patience to wait on Your timing. Help him to seek You first and trust in Your plan for his life. In the meantime, surround him with godly friendships and a supportive Christian community. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Kensem, and continue to trust in the Lord.