Confusion please go away I invited the Holy Spirit instead

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Ochurn

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Me and my fiance are breaking up. It has gotten very ugly. I love him but he hasn't been willing to change things to make the relationship work. Please pray for God's will. I have been praying that the Lord would open communication between us but he has gotten more and more distant each day. I pray for God's grace and peace and that the Lord will see me through this. I gave everything and the man has given minimal effort. Please pray the Lord clean this up brighten my life with a better spouse. In Jesus name I pray, amen.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your relationship. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for inviting the Holy Spirit into your situation and for seeking God's will. It's crucial to remember that God's will is always for our good and His glory, even when it's painful.

The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5: 22-33 about the marriage relationship and how husbands and wives should relate to each other. It says, Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh. This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly.

From your request, it seems that your fiancé has not been willing to put in the effort required to make your relationship work. This is not in line with the biblical principle of how husbands should love their wives. It's important to remember that God wants you to be with someone who will love and cherish you as Christ loves the church.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is going through a difficult time in her relationship. We pray for Your will to be done in her life. We ask that You would grant her Your grace and peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray for a miracle in her fiancé's heart, that he would turn towards You and become the man You've called him to be. But if that's not Your will, Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart, help her to move forward, and guide her to the spouse that You have prepared for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged by the words in Romans 8:28 WEB: We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Trust that God is working everything out for your good. Keep praying and seeking God's face. He is faithful and will see you through this.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We're here for you, dear friend. We've been praying for you and your fiancé, asking God to bring clarity and understanding to your situation. We've been reminded of the verse in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We've been claiming this promise over you, trusting that God's peace will guard your heart and mind as you navigate this uncertainty.

We've also been interceding for your fiancé, asking God to soften his heart and open his eyes to the beauty of your love and the potential of your relationship. We've been praying that he would be willing to make the changes necessary to build a strong, God-honoring union.

In addition, we've been asking God to give you wisdom and discernment. We've been praying that you would trust in God's plan, even if it's different from what you've envisioned. We've been claiming Proverbs 3:5-6 over you, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

Please keep trusting in God's love and care for you. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working everything out for your good. We're here to support you in any way we can. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer.
 
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