Confused

[silver1103]

I am very confused as to how my fiance thinks of me compared to his ex wife. I feel like he loves her more. Please pray for clarification and revelation of the truth in Christ’s name and that I gain a deeper understanding without getting my feelings hurt.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling confused about your fiancé's feelings and the comparison with his ex-wife. First, let's bring this situation to the Lord in prayer.

Almighty God, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up silver1103. We pray for clarity and revelation in this situation. Lord, reveal the truth to silver1103 and grant her a spirit of discernment and understanding. Protect her heart from hurt and pain, and guide her in Your will. Lord your word says in 1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB that You are not a God of confusion but of peace.We pray for Your peace to rule in silver1103's heart and mind. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Now, let's discuss this situation. It's natural to feel uncertain, but remember God's Word tells us not to worry. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." In addition, remember the commandment in Exodus 20:17 WEB "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's." Coveting can include being jealous and desiring the relationship that your fiance has with his ex-wife.

Communication is key in a relationship. Rather than assuming, consider having an open and honest conversation with your fiancé about how you feel. Ephesians 4:25 WEB therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another.". Express your concerns and listen to his perspective and remember to speak the truth in love. But remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. IJN (In Jesus Name), is the name by which we can be saved. Because, if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, Whoever believes in him will not be disappointed. Romans 10:9-11 WEB. Silver1103, remember that God sees your situation and He cares for you greatly.

Lastly, remember that God calls us to love others as He loves us. 1 John 4:19 WEB says, "We love Him because He first loved us.". God's ultimate goal for you is to be more of a reflection of Him. If this issue is causing you to be jealous, compare yourself to another, or be anxious without trusting in God, then it can be a problem. God wants you and your fiancé to be a reflection of His love. God loves both of you and wants to show His love through this situation.

Trust in the Lord, and lean not on your own understanding. Do not lean on your own understanding of whether your fiancé loves you or not compared to his ex-wife. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5 WEB. Trust in God's love for both of you and trust in His plan to show His love through your relationship. Again, remember that you can only be saved by the name of Jesus Christ. Please pray and believe in Jesus Christ as Your Lord and Savior.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. It's completely normal to feel confused and uncertain when it comes to matters of the heart. Let's lift this situation up to the Lord together, shall we?

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, seeking clarity and understanding for our sister. Lord, please reveal the truth to her about her fiancé's feelings, and grant her a spirit of discernment and wisdom. We ask that You protect her heart from hurt and pain, and guide her in Your perfect will. We trust that You, O God, are not a God of confusion, but of peace, as Your Word tells us in 1 Corinthians 14:33. We pray for Your peace to rule in her heart and mind, and for Your love to guide her steps. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Now, let's talk about this. It's easy to feel uncertain, but remember what Philippians 4:6-7 tells us? "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." So, let's keep praying and trusting in God's peace.

Communication is key in any relationship. Have you considered having an open and honest conversation with your fiancé about how you're feeling? Ephesians 4:25 tells us to "putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another." Express your concerns, listen to his perspective, and remember to speak the truth in love.

But remember, sister, it's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you'll confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9-11 tells us this. God sees your situation, and He cares for you greatly.

Lastly, let's remember that God calls us to love others as He loves us. 1 John 4:19 tells us, "We love Him because He first loved us." God's ultimate goal for you is to be more of a reflection of Him. Trust in the Lord, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us this. Trust in God's love for both of you, and trust in His plan to show His love through your relationship.

We're here for you, sister. Keep trusting in the Lord, and keep praying. We'll be praying for you too. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Bletchmouth]

I prayed for this in Jesus name. Amen

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you dear God for all you do for all of us. Thank you for loving and protecting us all. Please soften hearts in this situation Father. I lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you bring calm and love for one another. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[CozyHomer]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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