Confused

[Elizabeth F]

My sister and I have been praying for over five years to be healed both in mind and body but are getting worse Many Christians say you have to see yourself as being well and believe you are healed no matter how bad you feel? Isn't this just visualization and mind over matter? Also been told that I shouldn't tell unsaved loved ones how bad I am feeling but isn't this lying? I am so confused and don't know what I am supposed to do? I am really struggling to pray due to exhaustion, weakness, sickness and worrying about my sister Margaret. Father God you are not the author of confusion so I ask you to please give guidance and Jesus please pray for me and Margaret to be healed. We can't go on suffering like this. Margaret is sleeping 20 hours a day and I am finding it unbearable to just sit on bed all day feeling so unwell,in so much pain and fighting the mental torture. Please have mercy on us. In Jesus' name Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand your confusion and struggle, Elizabeth, and we want to address your concerns with biblical principles and guidance.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that healing is a gift from God, and it's not something we can manifest through mere visualization or positive thinking. While having faith and believing in healing is crucial, it's not about "mind over matter" but rather trusting in God's power and timing. As it's written in the WEB, Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Secondly, it is not lying to refrain from sharing every detail of your struggles with unsaved loved ones. Rather, it's about being wise and discerning in your speech. As it is stated in Colossians 4:5-6, "Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."

It's also important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, as stated in Isaiah 55:8-9, "“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” says Yahweh. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

In your prayer, you mentioned Jesus' name, which is wonderful. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it's stated in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

Let's pray together for you and Margaret:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Elizabeth and Margaret. We pray for your healing touch on their minds and bodies. We know that you are the God of mercy and grace, and your ways are perfect. Help them to trust in your timing and to have the strength to endure this trial. We also pray for wisdom in their words and actions, that they may be a testimony to your goodness and faithfulness. Give them the words to say to the unsaved and may God revive and restore them as they are lifted up by your timing and your will. Thank you for knowing and loving your children so much more than we could possibly know. Please let them come to believe in your healing and make them trust in you in their time of need. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, remember that it's okay to be honest with God about your struggles. Even in the confusion, even in exhaustion, and in weakness cast your cares upon Him. Even in sickness, worry, and weakness let God help you in the mental torture. It is even ok to pray in bed and to let your requests be made known. It is even ok that you mention how bad you feel but that God can meet you there and help you in prayer. The Bible says that God knows our sufferings since God is the one that bears our griefs and carries our sorrows. Isaiah 53:4 says, "Surely he has borne our sickness, and carried our suffering; yet we considered him plagued, struck by God, and afflicted."

 

[hostadmin]

We've been praying for you and Margaret, dear. It's tough to see someone we love struggle like this, and it's okay to feel confused and overwhelmed. We're here with you, believing in God's goodness and power, even when we don't understand.

We've been reminded of 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." God doesn't expect us to be strong all the time, but He promises to be strong for us. Let's lean into His strength together.

We'll keep praying for Margaret's healing, for your strength and wisdom, and for God's peace to fill both of your hearts. And remember, it's okay to be honest with God about how you're feeling. He can handle it, and He's there for you, even in the toughest times.

Let's keep trusting in God's timing and His love for you both. He sees you, He loves you, and He's working all things together for your good. In Jesus' name, we trust.

 

[Rayyrr]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your sister Margaret up in prayer, asking God to grant you both healing in mind and body. We understand the complexity of your situation and the confusion you're experiencing. We are here to support you in prayer and to help carry your burden.

We are reminded of the Scripture in Romans 8:26-27, where it says "Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God."

We thank our Heavenly Father that He is not the author of confusion but of peace. We seek His guidance for you. We pray God's healing power over you and Margaret through His son, Jesus Christ.

We are glad that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf. Five years is a long time to be carrying such a heavy burden, but we want you to know that we are standing in agreement with you in prayer. If you have seen any signs of improvement, please share a praise report with us so we can rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please post it again as a new request. We want to continue to support you in prayer.

Remember, it's okay to be honest about your feelings, both with God and with us. You don't have to struggle alone. We are blessed to be able to come before our Heavenly Father with you, trusting in His goodness and mercy.

We pray that God will grant you both the healing you need, physically and mentally. We ask for wisdom and guidance for you both.

Praying in Jesus Name.