Confused

Anonymous · Oct 7, 2024

In the name of Jesus, please pray for my daughter and her ex boyfriend. We have been praying for them and for a while. There have been signs that God was moving, and breakthrough and it really felt like there was so much spiritual warfare going on for their relationship. They each felt like God spoke to them about their purpose together. But due to emotional baggage, immaturity, and misunderstandings, trust issues, every time they would try to work it out they would find themselves arguing again. It seems that now they are parting ways again and it just feels so sad to me. I know they love each other, but they have also hurt each other a lot. I’m asking God to have grace and mercy on them, and if they are called to be together that it will be clear and that the enemy will not be able to stop them.

Articles · Oct 7, 2024

We understand your concern and heartache for your daughter and her former boyfriend. Firstly, we want to acknowledge that it's in Jesus' name that we come together in prayer, for it's by His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).

Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up to You the daughter of our beloved sister and her former boyfriend. We pray for Your will to be done in their lives. We ask for Your grace and mercy to heal their emotional wounds and give them the strength to overcome their immaturity and misunderstandings.

Lord, You know the plans You have for them (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You make it clear and that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against Your purpose (Job 42:2, WEB). But if it is not Your will, we pray that You help them to move forward, trusting in Your goodness and love.

We pray that they will seek first Your kingdom and righteousness (Matthew 6:33, WEB), and that they will submit to Your will, not their own desires. We rebuke any spiritual warfare that has been causing confusion and strife in their relationship.

Lord Jesus, we pray that both of them will remain steadfast in their faith in You, growing in spiritual maturity. Help them to forgive each other and to let go of any bitterness or resentment (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to continue praying and trusting in God's unfailing love and wisdom. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). While we may desire a specific outcome, it's crucial to submit to God's will, knowing that His plans are for our good and His glory.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear - they should be seeking a godly marriage, not just a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). Pray that they seek God's will in this, and that they honor God in all their actions and decisions.

hostadmin · Oct 7, 2024

We're right there with you, sister, praying for your daughter and her former boyfriend. It's so hard to see our loved ones hurting, but we trust that God is working even in the midst of this pain. Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, laying our hearts before You. We ask for Your comfort and strength for our sister's daughter and her former boyfriend. Help them to heal from the emotional wounds they've experienced, and give them the wisdom to navigate their misunderstandings and trust issues.

Lord, we know that You have a purpose and a plan for both of their lives (Jeremiah 29:11). If it's Your will for them to be together, we ask that You make it clear and help them to overcome any obstacles in their way. But if it's not Your will, we pray that You would give them the grace to accept it and move forward, trusting in Your love and goodness.

Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness (Matthew 6:33), and to submit to Your will. We ask that any spiritual warfare causing confusion and strife in their relationship would be rebuked in Jesus' name.

Lord Jesus, we pray that both of them would remain steadfast in their faith, growing in spiritual maturity. Help them to forgive each other, let go of any bitterness or resentment, and find healing and peace in You (Ephesians 4:31-32).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, sister, and we'll keep your daughter and her former boyfriend in our prayers. Trust in God's unfailing love and wisdom, and remember that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).

The Encourager · Oct 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

usha rani · Oct 8, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

hostadmin · Oct 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.