Confused - what to pray for?

[Danrisrion]

Prayer for my situation Hello. First thank you for taking the time to read this if you do. I’m very grateful for your time. I’m in a peaceful place in my life with who i am as a person i feel I’ve come a long way and I’m in in gratitud to God. I’m at peace in alot of aspect but i feel I’m in this chokehold in my relationship of 6 years. I’m truly letting this be if this gods will. I have truly tried to communicate with my partner our improvement for connection for I feel there is none at all, no true attentiveness from his end and instead of being needy I’ve put all this energy to continue puttting god first and myself. I used to freak out I no longer. I can go days in my house and feel like a stranger just doing a routine and his lack of interest to take initiative , pay attention or even talk to me with a genuine interest is gut wrenching and I’m still treating him well but I’m at a cross road because it’s become two strangers this past 2 months . I don’t want to fight or create issues but I know this is not a peace of mind for me lately I don’t know what to do . Do I request a prayer for this relationship to be strengthened or let it go . I’m so confused if this is gods will I’ve even prayed if this is not for me to remove it from my life. I don’t know what to do. I just pray for peace and if it’s not meant to be for him to open up or me or any kind of communication. It’s the worst

 

[Articles]

Danrisrion, we are grateful for your openness and honesty in sharing your situation. We will pray and provide guidance based on biblical principles.

Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that believers have access to God. As it is said in the New Testament, Believers in Jesus Pray in His Name. Acts 4:12 (WEB) reads, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" John 14:13-14 (WEB) says, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."

You are in a situation where you feel there is no genuine connection or attentiveness from your significant other. This is undoubtedly painful, and we commend you for maintaining a peaceful and patient attitude. However, it's crucial to evaluate your relationship in light of biblical principles. It is critical to mention that you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with a goal of courtship. As believers, we should seek relationships that align with God's will and lead to holy matrimony. 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 WEB says "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? And what agreement has Christ with Beliar? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?"

The concept of courting without the intent of marriage is not supported. The Bible teaches that relationships should be built on love, respect, and a shared commitment to God. Ephesians 5:25-28 (WEB) says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it ... So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."

Women, likewise, should be in subjection to their husbands in family matters. Ephesians 5:22-24 + 33 WEB says "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. ... Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

If marriage is not the goal, then the relationship should be reevaluated with God's guidance and forgiveness. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery. As believers, our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. Believers should not be yoked or have that kind of close relationship with unbelievers. Consider this is deciding what kind of relationship should be happening. If a non believer connection relationship needs to stop then you need to pray for God's forgiveness. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and 19 WEB says "Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom. ... Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own."

In your situation, it's essential to see this as possibly the Lord's calling to separate from this relationship. If so, trust in God's timing and plan for your life. God promises that He works all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 (WEB) says: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." We also mention, God Want's You To Trust Him. Look to Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB) says: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."

Pray for wisdom and discernment. Ask God to reveal His will for your life and to give you the strength to follow His path. James 1:5 (WEB) says: "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."

Heavenly Father IJN, we lift up Danrisrion to You, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help them to discern Your will and to have the courage and love to align their life with Your plan for them. Safeguard them from a life of sin and worldly values of a immoral, sexually permissive, love free ungodly lifestyle. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Danrisrion. We understand that feeling disconnected and unheard in a relationship can be incredibly painful. We're sorry that you're going through this. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're here to support you.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep putting God first and yourself second, just as you've been doing. It's commendable that you're trying to communicate and improve the connection in your relationship, but remember, you can't control the other person's actions or responses. You can only control your own.

We want to remind you of Philippians 4:7 (WEB), "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Trust that God is in control and that He has a purpose in all things. Even in this difficult situation, He is working for your good.

We'll continue to pray for you, Danrisrion. We ask that you keep seeking God's face and His will in this matter. Trust that He knows what's best for you and that He has a plan for your life. We're here if you need to talk or if there's anything else you'd like us to pray about.

In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray for you. We are standing in agreement with you, seeking God's will for your relationship. We hope that you have found some clarity and peace over the past few days.

If God has shown you the next steps or given you any sense of direction or peace, we would love for you to share. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others who are also seeking God's will in their relationships.

If you are still feeling confused or stuck, please don't hesitate to share your request again. We want to continue praying for you. We want to support you in seeking God. Remember, it's okay to not have all the answers. God meets us where we are, and He is faithful to guide us when we seek Him. We are here to pray for God's will to be done in your life.

We continue to echo Philippians 4:7 for you sister,"And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" in Jesus Name.